i am not interested in extra money-deleted from my friend's list

India
May 2, 2011 7:06am CST
Hello everyone here Ji,' Many a times, I have been trequesting here that I am not here for earning money, but to njoy your company here. There are few members, who become my friend and start writing PM for promotion of their websites, luring me. I find wast of time even to reply, for for the first time, I have deleted one member today. i do apolize, as it is not my habit, but forced to do that. At least let them reach to some good no. of post. Thanks. Have I done correct OR not. Please do share your views . May God bless You and have a great time.
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10 responses
@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
2 May 11
IF all they want to do is promote thier programs I would delete to most times I look and deny if thats all I see in thier profile. THis is a discsion site not a promotion site!
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@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
4 May 11
Your welocme Really we shouldnt doubt but now so many newbies think that they can use mylot for thier commercials. LIke this moring I had 2 ask to be friends one had over 400 friends but no posts and no responces I denied them cant have a freinds if noting is going on toward that
• India
4 May 11
Hello my friend Lakota12 Ji, So nice of you for your immediate and prompt positive response and raising my morale as a correct step. I always felt guilty as I had never hurt anyone so far. Even someone wants to be my friend, without going into details I always acced with request. My question is why to doubt first. You are absolutely right that this is not promotional site. Thanks. May God bless You and have a great time.
• United States
2 May 11
Don't feel bad. I guess, you made the right choose as I did 2 days ago. This person added me to his/her friends list and promoting me a website as her referral. I noticed that she/he has zero conversation join or topic. Two days ago, another message about referral. Like you, I also deleted this person on my list.
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• United States
2 May 11
* right choice, I mean. whooo...
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• India
4 May 11
Hello my friend speedytypist Ji, So nice of you for your immediate and prompt positive response and raising my morale as a correct step. I always felt guilty as I had never hurt anyone so far. Even someone wants to be my friend, without going into details I always acced with request. My question is why to doubt first. While replying to his PM, I uggested if he could post at least 500 posts and then try and suggest. Thanks. May God bless You and have a great time.
@tiffnkeat (1673)
• Singapore
2 May 11
I can understand how you felt. Most of us get such PMs or invite as friends as well. That is the reason I seldom accept friends (unless the lotter already has sufficient posts). Those who zero posts and have many friends, I really suspect their motives. Frankly I wonder if accepting or dropping friends affect anyone. If we do see someone we know in here in the post, we will still say hi whether the person is or is not in the friend list. You did not do wrong. You did what you chose to do, because the other person did what he/she chose to do. Every one is given free choice in here, within regulations.
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• India
4 May 11
Hello my friend tiffnkeat Ji, So nice of you for your immediate and prompt positive response and raising my morale as a correct step. I always felt guilty as I had never hurt anyone so far. Even someone wants to be my friend, without going into details I always acced with request. My question is why to doubt first. Thanks. May God bless You and have a great time.
• India
4 May 11
Hello my friend tiffnkeat Ji, I wish tyo bring out following PM as an example that after acceding friend's request I got following message with ZERO POST :- [b]" park43 (0) Do you need money? my friend giving away a special offer on how to get traffic for free. if you are interessted go here: http://money101.byethost4.com/ Best part is its free( you can use is technics for..." [/b] Started by park43 (0) • 3 hours ago • Sent to (0) • 0 responses Thanks. May God bless You and have a great time.
@iklananda (1202)
3 May 11
Hmmm a lot of people here to earn more money so if you think you are bother with that deleting is the best way or put the make extra money away is a great option
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• India
4 May 11
Hello my friend iklananda Ji, So nice of you for your immediate and prompt positive response and raising my morale as a correct step. I always felt guilty as I had never hurt anyone so far. Even someone wants to be my friend, without going into details I always acced with request. My question is why to doubt first. I have sufficient money, I always run with surplus funds as we have limited expenses. Thanks. May God bless You and have a great time.
@arnab26 (116)
• India
3 May 11
Dear maygodblessu, You have done nothing wrong and you also don't need to apologize for that.In mylot,there are some people who sends friend requests for the promotion of their sites or their affiliate products and try to catch everyone's eye.I also faced the same situation as my email inbox got spammed by these type emails.I think that mylot should take some action about this and try to prevent this things.I also advice you to contact mylot about this so they can take some precautionary steps.
• India
4 May 11
Hello my friend arnab26 Ji, So nice of you for your immediate and prompt positive encouraging response and raising my morale as a correct step. I always felt guilty as I had never hurt anyone so far. Even someone wants to be my friend, without going into details I always acced with request. My question is why to doubt first. Thanks. May God bless You and have a great time.
2 May 11
I think it's right of you to delete them. If you didn't ask for these links and they keep sending them it just gets annoying! Maybe once you can let people off, but multiple times it's just irritating and no need for it so deleting them is what I'd do.
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• India
4 May 11
Hello my friend LeighAnne93 Ji, So nice of you for your immediate and prompt positive response and raising my morale as a correct step. I always felt guilty as I had never hurt anyone so far. Even someone wants to be my friend, without going into details I always acced with request. My question is why to doubt first. Thanks. May God bless You and have a great time.
• Philippines
2 Jun 11
There is this one time that i want to receive something like that now that im older, i now know how annoying it is. It is reasonable to delete them as friend, friend :)
@KrauseHome (36447)
• United States
15 Jul 11
Personally I think there are many of us here who are exactly like you. There have been times I have accepted someone and they send me Money making things right away and I have had to delete them. If you are a friend of mine and been one for a while and I ask about how you have made some $$, then it is OK to share it, but I feel otherwise leave us to make it our own ways.
@Devilova (5392)
• Indonesia
2 May 11
For me, I will do the same thing like what you have done.If they do the same thing like they have done to you. So far, there is no one who done that to me. Some of them send a PM about that, but I will explain to them that they are too late. Most of the site that they give to me, I already a member in there.
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• India
4 May 11
Hello my friend Devilova Ji, So nice of you for your immediate and prompt positive response and raising my morale as a correct step. I always felt guilty as I had never hurt anyone so far. Even someone wants to be my friend, without going into details I always acced with request. My question is why to doubt first. I do reply their PM as well requesting them politely. Thanks. May God bless You and have a great time.
• United States
2 May 11
You are not obligated to keep anyone on your friend list that you don't want. some are just your friend to send spam. You did right. Take care
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• India
4 May 11
Hello my friend soapies1973 Ji, So nice of you for your immediate and prompt positive response and raising my morale as a correct step to make my right choice. . I always felt guilty as I had never hurt anyone so far. Even someone wants to be my friend, without going into details I always acced with request. My question is why to doubt first. Thanks. May God bless You and have a great time.
• Philippines
2 May 11
hi. I think what you have done is just OK.. we all have the right to choose our friends anyway. I think if they do that to me I will do the same thing as you did..
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• India
4 May 11
Hello my friend rrbterania Ji, So nice of you for your immediate and prompt positive response and raising my morale as a correct step for my 'RIGHT CHOICE' . I always felt guilty as I had never hurt anyone so far. Even someone wants to be my friend, without going into details I always acced with request. My question is why to doubt first. Thanks. May God bless You and have a great time.