Being Single Is Not A Crime

Philippines
May 2, 2011 9:28am CST
Hello Mylotters, Just want to know why many people are affected if they will find me or others as a [b][/b] SINGLE being as if i did something wrong maybe i am just tired of answering those people who keep on asking me this kind of stuff. Every time we have a family gatherings my relatives always turning the table on me Okay fine i don't have special someone but it doesn't mean i am not happy . I am happy to be single though there were a times i think i should be leaning my head over someone's shoulder which is not a family member or a friend, someone who gonna light up my day when i have a bad hair day, someone who will promise me something and break it later , someone who is going to stand at my side even the world is against us. If there is one who is destined to be mine i'll be happy but if I will be single throughout my life cannot do anything about it i will just live my life that it should be. So SINGLES are you happy to be one? Share your views HAPPY MYLOTTING
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23 responses
@shibham (16977)
• India
3 May 11
Hi... Why you are single? here is a shoulder. Okay, i am a single and i have not ever felt that i need someone to share my life. When i will feel, i will proceed but now i am happy enough being single at least i have this forum to get involved. Have a nice day.
• Philippines
3 May 11
@shibham... how come you are only offering bhaby your shoulder? by what i have read in previous discussions... i thought you'd be offering her way lot more than a shoulder. how about other body parts too? lol just kidding! peace. @bhaby... (aka flower post) peace! lol love yah!
@shibham (16977)
• India
3 May 11
Hi.. I am offering all of mine to her but she is refusing. Perhaps she is not single. Bhaby is always cool.
• Philippines
3 May 11
Hi shiby, Just make sure your shoulder will be there and will not be misplace We must be happy always right? even you are not single you can still be involve here thanks for the response have a nice day too.
• Philippines
3 May 11
i've been asked numerous times, just when will i get married, so often that i lost count. hehe when one is young, friends and families are against getting married early in life. when one gets older, everybody is pushing to get married. and it becomes more stressful for women. (sigh) whether single or married, it's important to be happy with our own person, to love oneself just as much as he or she is able to love another. right now i am single. am i happier this way? don't i long for someone to love? hehe i'm happy whether in a relationship or not. i have so much love to give and i get to receive so much love too. it's an ideal situation to have your life partner right beside you for a lifetime. to be blessed like that is really a gift that we really have to appreciate every moment of our life. but maybe not everyone is blessed the same way. or our life partners don't come into our life at every desired moment. i still believe that everyone has a great love story in store for them. it's just up to us to unravel it. i have nothing against being single nor am i desperate to get married. i would one day want to find that love again and perhaps get married too. but for now that i'm single, doesn't mean i don't have anyone in my life to love and to love me. hehe have a happy day!
• Philippines
3 May 11
lol sometimes i attract a different kind of love that of which is far from what i desire. lol why be a flower post when you can be the bride? hahaha you are selling yourself short. one day a man will come and offer you the world. he'd be your knight and treat you like a princess. together you'll weave dreams and create a future and a home. you just might be one of those lucky enough to live happily ever after. but most importantly, you have lived. the last line was inspired by the movie "ever after" starring drew barrymore. i really like this film and it was on cable when i passed by the living room a while ago and so i stayed awhile and watched it. it's a romantic film about cinderella with a few twists. hehe
• Philippines
3 May 11
hi myles, ouucccchhhhhhhhhh.......i felt so guilty For sure there are lot for you out there just point your finger out which one you like and boom i will be a flower post soon I don't have a doubt about how happy you are now because many people are showering you so much love thanks for the response happy mylotting
• Philippines
3 May 11
i watched that movie just forget the title drew was really a fine actress I love the story and her dress during the grand ball i want that wings too LOL. I hope he will come soon before i get my wheelchair
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
28 Aug 12
it is 1 year ago discussion but i think it is not crime if i respond it now i had ever found many single people and say that they enjoy their time and sometimes they feel they are better than they have couple.. why??no one can push them do something that they dislike.. no one are angry when they come late at home..
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
29 Aug 12
of course, it is not sin and crime too you respond my respond so you are still single until now??
• Philippines
30 Aug 12
hahaha!Yes still and enjoying it
• Philippines
28 Aug 12
hi adhyz, Not its not a crime to respond to a 1 year old topic Well some people prefer to be single for awhile thanks for the response happy mylotting
@jasmeena (846)
• Indonesia
10 May 11
Actually, I agree with you. It is better being single rather than have relationship with someone I don`t love..but I am 34, female, and I have been single for about 2 years and my parents got stressed. I want to get married ASAP, but it is impossible to hurry
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
28 Aug 12
i can understand your parents feeling jasmeena.. don`t worry as long as you believe God.. God more knows the best for you...Pray for God and hope that God gives the right man for you
• Philippines
10 May 11
hello jasmeena, That is fine as long as you are happy I hope getting a groom will be that easy too thanks for the response happy mylotting
• India
1 Sep 12
In my opinion being single is not a crime, when right time will come you will get married happily blessings and hugs from baba
• Philippines
2 Sep 12
hi Professor2010, Well in right time and not in a arrange one I hope I will thanks for the response happy mylotting
@783748 (178)
• Philippines
18 May 11
Being single is really not a crime. I'm happy being single but I still hope to find my perfect match someday. I believe that there is a person destined to love us. It's just not now, maybe tomorrow.
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
28 Aug 12
hai 783748, of course..being single is choice..and no one law regulations can punish the single people i do hope someday you can find your perfect couple fulfilling your days..
• Philippines
19 May 11
hi 783748, I also believe that there are someone who is destined to each of us they will come in the right time thanks for the response happy mylotting
@carolscash (9492)
• United States
3 May 11
Enjoy being single! It doesn't matter what everyone else thinks of your decision to be single. When asked about it, just politely tell them that you are waiting for Mr. Right and if he comes along fine, but if not you are happy with the way you are. You don't have to have a partner around to be happy. I think that marriage is way overrated in many countries. Be happy with who you are!
• Philippines
4 May 11
hello carol, I am enjoying it seems my family was not convinced at all thanks for the response happy mylotting
@watergirl (567)
• Philippines
3 May 11
Being single is definitely not a crime! Just be a good person on your own. If you ever find someone in the future, then good for you. The thing is, being single or married both has benefits and imperfections.
• Philippines
3 May 11
hello watergirl, Yeah but it seems being single is a crime for my family thanks for the response
@mythociate (21432)
• Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
10 Oct 11
The Bible's "Genesis" says "It is not good for the Earthling to be alone." (I know the actual Scripture says 'for the man,' but 'Earthling' is what 'man' means.) Oh, you can still DO GOOD THINGS and BE A GOOD PERSON yourself; but the whole situation IS NOT GOOD when you're alone (without someone to end your alone-ness if you get lonely). I'm single & happy, but not so-much "happy to be single." Which is why I'm 'happy but a little jealous' when friends of mine get married (or when possible-wife-friends get married out of that possibility.) Do you ever ask 'the world,' "When's it MY turn?"
• Philippines
11 Oct 11
hi mythociate, I don't want to rush things up I am not hypocrite I do get jealous seeing happy couples but I just can't grab anyone to be my partner just for the sake of being in a relationship . God has plans thanks for the response happy mylotting
@betty110 (66)
• China
5 May 11
Sometimes I feel lonely when I was single. I wish to have a boyfriend or husband some day. But it is not a rush thing, you have to choose the suitable one, not everyone is ok. Most of the time, single is good. You have time to think about everything of your life, and it is good.
• Philippines
5 May 11
Hello betty, Yeah no need to be in rush maybe someone well come along the way in unexpected time thanks for the response happy mylotting
• Philippines
3 May 11
Cheers to you! I am not single but I love your title. Many people are so concerned about their being single, but really they should enjoy it. Love will just come to them when they least expect it. Being single and being in a relationship both has its fair share of ups and downs. :)
• Philippines
4 May 11
hi ohsodianne, I am enjoying this status of mine it's just some people can't understand that and trying to push me to have someone in my life . thanks for the response happy mylotting
• Philippines
3 May 11
hello, actually I'm still single and I can say that I am happy living my life and contented. if there is somebody destined for me then I will be happy to accept, but I don't think I should be looking for it because all I know is if it is meant to happen then it will.
• Philippines
4 May 11
hello rrbterania, Glad to know that you are happy and contented thanks for the response happy mylotting
3 May 11
your right!being single is not a crime really!..you choose to be one and its fine!,as long as your doing well and enjoying a lot!thats fine!. God is just busy making a perfect guy for you. thats why, you should wait and be not in hurry!.. GOdspeed!:0
• Philippines
4 May 11
hello joeyalberta, You gave me laugh there thank you yeah maybe he is busy making one for me so i must enjoy this status of being single for awhile thanks for the response happy mylotting
6 May 11
theres 1 thing i learned in life throught all my years on earth.....patience is 1 ov the main keys you have 2 have 2 make it through hard times like now....faith along with trust in yourself are written on the same key kuz without them 2 you wont survive....and last but not least.....Love 4 yourself is one ov the biggest keys 2 ever have when u love yourself no matter wat any1 says or do as long az you have them 4 keys no1 kan tell u wat your future holds even if they think they are smarter or better than you
• Philippines
6 May 11
hello Got2GetItSumHow, Right no one can tell me what is better for me because i know myself more than they do thanks for the response WELCOME TO MYLOT
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
2 May 11
bhaby, someone who will promise me something and break it later now you wish for this...when sometime ago you keep ranting when someone promised me and keep breaking that promise. Now you know it's still better than no one promises you a broken promise hmmm?...? anyway,i like your dress...
• Philippines
3 May 11
hi jaiho, I am not wishing for me i am expecting that he can break his promises even how much he loves me Remember that dress? you almost fainted when we reach the place love yah!
@vandana7 (100303)
• India
3 May 11
Hi sweetie, I am 51 as of date, and I am single. and honestly, I dont want company. :) I'd hate people who tell me do this, and dont do this.. and you cant do this properly and why this is not done. :)
• Philippines
3 May 11
hello vandana, Really? Well some people are like that they don't want a company but in my opinion of there is one i will be happy if none then i can't do anything about it. thanks for the response have a nice day!
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
3 May 11
Do you really like to stay single all your life? If you answer no, then probably you could do some socializing and going to places where you are most likely to meet single men. But if you answer yes, then why mind those people who keeps on asking you about it. What is important is that you like being so and is happy.
• Philippines
3 May 11
hi Simplyd, I am very sociable person i can say that but mom doesn't allow me to go on a Gimick well it will be fine at least twice a month If there is someone for me i'll be glad if there is none then be it. thanks for the response happy mylotting
@blogger01 (124)
• Philippines
3 May 11
Being single doesn't mean your unhappy. There are really people who just want to stay single and they always want it that way. I have friends who are single and they are happy. It's just a matter of choice. There is another question actually.. Are those who are in a relationship happy?hehehe..
• Philippines
3 May 11
hello blogger, That is true even we are single we can still be happy It's our choice and not others choice Regarding with your question maybe, yes, and nO thanks for the response WELCOME TO MYLOT
• United States
3 May 11
Relationships can really take a toll on your self-esteem and personality, because they almost always end in failure unless you happen to meet that perfect someone on your first go. Being single isn't bad, but I mean we all get urges for the other gender, so unless you have a couple "kicks" in your little black book, then we're gonna eventually want a relationship so we can do the somethin-somethin haha.
• Philippines
3 May 11
helloo lsdhrooms, Somethin-somethin????????? Well as of now i am happy enough but will be more happier if there is someone i can share my happiness with thanks for the response Welcome to Mylot
@onlytheo (23)
• United States
2 May 11
I have been single for a year now and I am happy to be that way. It was a point when I wanted to be in a relationship just to be in one, but that is draining. I would much rather be single and happy than in a unhappy relationship. I've caught a lot of heat from my family about me being single with no kids "at my age" but they will be alright. I'm happy with life and how things are going. I'm not going to settle, when I find somebody right for me, then I will take that step, but until then I'm happily living the single life...
• Philippines
3 May 11
hello onlytheo, Yes we must be happy Getting into a relationship is not the easy as they think because every love story has it's sad and happy moments thanks for the response WELCOME TO MYLOT