distrust towards someone else

Now, it is very difficult to trust other people, even to those closest. We can not trust other people, but we can not, do not believe in God.

I've been let down a lot of times in my life and I've suffered a lot of disappointments. Many times I've decided never to trust anyone ever again, but taking on all the burden that came my way alone made my life miserable and lonely. People are still people; they make mistakes and have to be forgiven for them. We can't push away everyone in our lives because people need people. Now, I still put my faith in a lot of people, but I make sure not to get my hopes up too high so that the fall back down to the ground won't hurt so bad. Then, I pick myself up again, dust myself off and do what I can to fix the damage that has been done. I forgive but remember to learn something from the fall so that I don't have to make the same mistakes.

Yes i have no trust to some people i know... and i think that’s normal... but remember to trust your own heart... cheers... :)

Hi sweetie. That's normal. I don't trust people at all. I find it very difficult to trust anyone, whether i know them or not. You will find one or 2 you can really trust later in life.

hello, I also experience that how many times and it is me I never learned I always trust but you know as they betrayed I realize that it is really difficult to trust someone that you think helping you but in the end they will also betrayed you. I am asking myself? am I doing this to others? I am not, so why is this happening to me?. right?something like that. And now I am having a hard time to trust them because I dont like to betrayed again.

Well, you do have a reason there for in this world right now we cannot know who are those person we can trust on, but i would say that though you had a bad experience about trust, you should not stop trusting anyone, for there are as well people we can rely on and can be trusted with, you can feel that if she/he can be trusted or not.

I look at things much different. I give everyone I meet the Great opportunity to be TRUSTWORTHY. Doesn't everyone deserve that? Do I get hurt alot??? No, because I value only the good. You should never allow the actions of others define who you choose to be. Choose not to be a victim of betrayal. You can do this while giving everyone the Great Opportunity to be TRUSTWORTHY!!

ah i have had the same things happen to me which is why I am careful who i befriend and i think it is completly normal to feel that way.people are scary so sometimes its best not to trust them. Being to trusting isnt good :)

hi, im so thankful because in my years of living and having a lot of friends,i never been encounter to betray me with my friends or even my family.but putting a trust to someone of course it has an limit,and the limit has an ending.

In my honest opinion I think you really have to trust someone or a certain number of people. Having no one to trust just creates to much barrier in your personal growth and can greatly affect your social life. I could suggest a book for if you like it's called the 48 laws of power by robert greene, I think it could somewhat help you in a way in dealing with those certain kind of individuals. Hope this helps :-)