Why do we feel attracted for the bad boys/girls

Believe it or not, I just saw a talk show with a Psychologist. It is simple. You are a knight in shiny armour. I mean you see a bad girl and you want to help or "save" her.Or like you said , you like their boldness. Either way Be careful. Some bad girls arte Just evil. They don't want to change. Me? I used to think I was evil so I yearned to be with a bad guy. But my fried convinced me I may have a bad temper but i am not evil. And after that realization I found a nice guy and I am happy.

there usually is an attraction to the opposites because they represent the things that you are not, the things you can't or won't do, they exude excitement and challenge, they add color to the usual black and white, and they make you feel that it's alright to bend some rules. on the other hand, we sometimes get attracted to things we desired the most. hehe it may be the person or its representation. as in your case, it's freedom. living. the freedom to live life to its fullest. and you get attracted to people who seem to be doing things as freely as they could. just what holds you back? pardon my asking. you are young. i attended a seminar and caught on what the speaker has said: life offers limitless potential. the only ones limiting is us. have a great and enjoyable day alvaro.

Personally I don't feel much attraction to the bad boys, but I think I do get the lure. Maybe. Part of it. There was a guy back in high school that I would have called a "bad boy". He was wild, reckless, and constantly getting in trouble. Not qualities that I admire. Except he was also confident, bold, and ready to fight for anything. Those are qualities that I admire. I think that maybe some girls see the qualities they admire and don't realize that the qualities they don't admire can't be changed and are REALLY dangerous. Most "nice guys" I know don't have any of that bold confidence.

hi alvaro, you probably still remember me i am not interested in bad boys heheh. my boyfriend is a "good boy" too, he is a joker and so am i hehe, he likes staying at home and that's how i am too. we are like each other, we almost have the same likes and dislikes. i dunno if i should still call him my boyfriend, we broke up already but i still hope he takes me back again soon i still love him very much and even just thinking about him like right now makes me cry so much already i miss him in my life. some of the people i know are like that too. they like bad guys, like they find it sexy hehehe and yeah maybe they also find them very interesting. i agree that in some cases, opposites attract too :)

the world is made of rules and we deemed these rules absolute, but they are not. theoretically they are, but in practice they have so many flaws. anyways, what is common to all of us despite the presence of these so many rules is that we experience the same things.we may experience it differently, but thematically its the same.boys attracted to girls and girls attracted to boys.good boys attracted to bad girls and good girls attracted to bad boys. i do not want to make use of the world bad.because it generally speaks of being bad. let's look at the bright side. i do not think so these we so called "bad boys/girls" are really bad at all. they were just lost souls. and what does lost souls need? guidance. from whom? from those deemed people with the right mind set - they are the good nurtured ones. what is so nice of these so called "bad boys/girls" is when they are given that one single opportunity to be good, they will grabbed it. and when that single opportunity is a perfect timing, they can make a big difference. it doesn't matter if you had fallen for these bad girls/boys. what matters most is you can change one soul. and that very simple thing you have done makes a big difference. who will benefit that effort by the way? it's us who shared our life to change one lost soul. nothing will be lost, only energies spent. but we can replenish it. at the end of the day, after all what we have done, we can still lie on our bed peacefully and with a smile in our faces - I made something great today. what have you done? i had changed one soul.

Oh I see! Maybe that's why I don't feel attracted with those bad guys because I'm already bad. Hahaha! Just kidding. I'm not a bad/party/hard-rocki'n girl but no bad guy has ever caught my attention so far. I'd rather like to be with a mature, responsible, caring, honest and respectful guy. :)

hmm i also ask this myself, when i watch movies, i tend to notice i like the rugged ones or the bad boys if you say so... like when i watched the movie the fast and the furious i love paul walker there, he have this rugged look that is so attractive..lol i like those kinds, i do not like the tooo neat ones, the ones that their hair are so in place.. a no no fr me.. it is something about their confidence that is so attractive

I think that if you've remained true, and straight all your life, there is a propensity to be attracted to 'bad' girls. Sometimes, when it takes a bit of stress to remain 'good', we become curious on how it feels to let go. But, I would just call this attraction, which is fleeting, and not something to build a relationship on.

I guess girls or boys like the adventure and get amassed by things they dare not do but they partner are doing, they need people to go wild and experiment the other world which they are prohibited by young and these wild bad boys and girls introduce them to expose their wild sides and be crazy and stupid1.Wild people some has no responsibility and think of no consequence of their actions.

i do think that you need to get to know yourself better... there are reasons why you are being attracted to those types of girls. What is in a labeled bad girl that good girls doesn't have? and vice versa. Try to answer these questions. what is it that you really want for a girl? do you find bad girls exciting? and good girls boring? are you an adventurous type of guy? are you a risk-taker? examine yourself and you will know the answer...

We do normally get attracted to good looking girls.When it comes to the good or bad girl then good girls are cute but hard to get 'em into bed and bad girls typically come across as sexier and easier so we go for it.

I think the reason why people like the bad guys because it's more excitement because they like to have fun or be dangerous. Sometimes we want to have those moments of wild fun or sometimes we are in a desperate need to let loose and be free. We find someone that can give us that and it puts this whole excitement in our brains.

Come on human also atracted to new things and good one bad girls have it

Hi Starsailover, I have the opposite.... I atrack bad boys thinking Iam bad. But when they see Iam just a good girl they think iam just acting. I have it all the the time. I love good guys and they also think iam bad and exiting and have a misterious life. Reality is just that Iam a simple girl with normal activities, some consider this as dull hahahah. When I was fed up of the bad boys I changed my style of clothes and the result was nothing I still have it. yess I know its not only your clothes but also looks. But when I listen what men think about me, what kind of fantasies they have or think how I am, sometimes I get shocked and think how the men are being doctrinated with hot girls on tv. They often look only on the cover and don't look at the girl inside. They make comparises with a sexy girl from tv thats their refference. So what is bad and what is good? hahahah

hello Alvaro, I don't get attracted with bad boys,maybe a bit ruggedly looks will do but a total bad boy. I don't like those prim and proper good boyish looks...i want a bit mystic of manlyhood ..not a total crashed off. have a great day my friend...

I looked at the photo but the girls in it don't seems to be "bad", but they seems "b.i.t.c.h.e.s". I don't know in detail what do you means for "bad girls". If they are girls quite naked I say that is obvious that I'm attracted by them, if not it depends from the girl.

these bad girls and boys know what to do. the know the art of making even the worst habit seem like it is the best. if you allow your mind to accept these things, they overtake you and in no time you begin imitating them.