Longdistance friendship

Hey there, Don't fret too much, allow time to bring you two together. She may have legitimate reasoning but if she does not take time out then simply allow time to bring your schedules together. Next time a meet is set allow her to set the date and maybe since it has been customary that she cancels do not set to much effort on it or say to her are you sure because I will be setting the time and since you always cancel, I just want to be sure that I don't waste the time. If she really wants to meet she will keep the time open and not cancel so many times.

My best friend is far away from me too, we gratuated form the same university,and then we went back to our own city,we havn't seen each other for almost 3 years,we talked on line,when we met big problems we called each other,we've been thinking to get a chance to see each other,but we always have our own agenda,and it's really a long distance,it takes two days and one night for train,and we don't have so much free time.

"No distance of place or lapse of time can lessen the friendship of those who are thoroughly persuaded of each other's worth." ~Roberty Southey

hello Delicious36... :) i have a good friend just like yours... we were college friends and we graduated together... but after each of us have our own job, we rarely meet each other... she always text me first saying that she missed me a lot and make an appointment to meet after work... but everytime she made an appointment, she always canceled it by herself, and never told me that she canceled the appointment... i sent messages and called her phone but she didnt pick my phone or reply my messages... after few hours waiting, i decided to go home.. and then in the middle of the night or maybe few days later she replied my messages said “sorry, i forgot” thats it, just 3 words... and she did it not only once, but almost 50 times.. she made the appointment and then canceled it by herself without told me, and only say “sorry, i forgot”.. but i cannot mad to her cos she’s one of my good friends too...

Hmmm... That's quite a dilemma you got there. You seem to be the one exerting too much effort in your friendship. But friendship shouldn't be that way as far as I know. I do have a few friends that I don't get to see for months especially since we do have some really busy schedules. But if I'm in town or anyone of them is available and it happens that I can let go of some of my tasks for the day, then I try my best to spend time with them even just over dinner or something. Maybe, this long distance kind of friendship is difficult for both of you. Don't pressure your friend into meeting with you. Just let her know that you are always there for her and that you would hope to spend time with each other soon. Sending some messages and calling isn't that bad and maybe, when things would all go your way, you'd have so many catching up to do that a day or a week isn't enough.

Hay I feel Friendship is not meant for seeing if you have a good Friendship even after 20 years without seeing your friend your friendship would be same because I felt the same a very good friend of me Have to go to some other place so we are unable to see we are busy in studies so we have less contact but still he is my best friend.

Don't be confused coz sometimes time is not always with us. Like what had happen to your friend's time she almost not have even for herself i think. So just pray to have more time then to do all the task and needed to do on time.

There isnt much to be worried about. She might be really busy and that might be the reason why she has been cancelling all your meetings. It is pointless to be sad about that. If she considers you as her true friend then she will find time for you and will come to you in the near future. Everybody is busy with their life and finding time for friends is very difficult no matter how close friends you guys are. If she ever considered you as her friend dont worry. Distance doesnt matter in friendship. What does matter is heart.

don't worry my friend.she might be really busy with work .if she is a true friend of yours then she will definitely find time to meet you.if she is your friend why do you wait for her appointment? just make a visit...........:-)

If she can't meet atleast you can go home and meet her. You call her and take her address. If she doesn't give you number, it means she is not interested.....

Well I think that distance doesn't matter as long as you still consider each other as friends by heart. I think the best way to solve this problem is just to pray for your friend so that she might have easier times ahead of her. And well just be patient with her and tell her you understand and that you'd always be there if she ever needs help. According to a song I've heard " Friends are quiet angels..."

It's pretty simple, let her feel what she is letting you feel about her

if your friend has no time for you then why continue the relationship