Life can be so unfair sometimes...

Philippines
May 4, 2011 5:45am CST
I try to tell myself that it's going to be okay and I know it will be but right now I'm so depressed...I've been trying hard to lift my spirits and myLot has helped a bit but still the feeling of gloom lingers in my heart...this has something to do with my job not my relationships, I just feel so inadequate because of the news I got a week ago...
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@celticeagle (168542)
• Boise, Idaho
4 May 11
You have to tell yourself that the gloom will pass. That no matter how down you bet this will change. Just because you feel inadequate about this doesn't mean that there aren't other areas you would be VERY adequate for. I believe that eveyone has a nitch we just have to find what it is!
@celticeagle (168542)
• Boise, Idaho
5 May 11
Good, glad to be of help!
• Philippines
5 May 11
THANKS!!! I needed that...
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@picjim (3002)
• India
4 May 11
If it is bad news about your job...please start looking for a job where you get recognition and satisfaction.If possible try to gain an additional qualification.This will improve your future job prospects.Try to look at the sunny side of life and work hard as you will reap good rewards in future.
• Philippines
4 May 11
I agree, i have a mylot friend who had this job for years. recently, he lost his girl friend, so depressed he had to look for another, which was very successful. i think if she look for a job immediately after loosing this one then there's a huge chance that she'll get it for sure. as for me, i doubt if i can be qualified again because i have reached way pass my age limit
• Philippines
5 May 11
I was happy with my job and I thought I was appreciated that's why it came as a shock to me...but I'm accepting this trial, I hope though that I would be hired in the school that I applied in...but if not, I'll find another
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
6 May 11
i think every man had problems...maybe you had a problem with yor job or career..but another person had a problems in their marriage, or their relation with their parents.. but it is not a big reason to say that life is unfair for you
• Philippines
4 May 11
it happens - if we don't feel this, then were not human
Hello marapples, You know, sometimes you have to weight something that you already have in your life and value. at the same time, look at some one's status in life, specially the poor and unpriviledge ones.we eat three times a day, we have a home, a pc. clothing to wear, and am sure you got yourself a job right? even if you don't you can still find a new one, am sure you're qualified. i don't have a job but we recently constructed commercial space that helps us here earn income. I don't even have a relationship which can be freaking lonely and depressing too. but at least i have my freedom for myself and can do what ever i want when ever i feel like it. sometimes i feel the same way you do. you know, I watch North Korean Documentaries when ever i feel depress. it makes me realize that we are in a free country, we chose what to believe and we are not totally controlled unlike these North Koreans who had to leave with a risk so that they can live a freely and normal life. I am still blessed for what i still have. i can't everything but maybe i am not mature or responsible enough to have other things. Have a nice day. * PS: maybe you can look at this guy, it might make you realize something. Not a referral link. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ciYk-UwqFKA
• Philippines
5 May 11
thanks for the response, I feel much better now that I faced what I was feeling and yes, I'm blessed in other things, like my family and my fiancée...they believe in me so I'm feeling a lot better now...
@asliah (11137)
• Philippines
18 May 11
hi, we can compare relationship in our job and job is like love when stress and depression come.life is really not fair sometimes,sometimes there are reason why,maybe to make us strong and to feel sometimes the sadness in life.
@tammy27 (1241)
• Philippines
4 May 11
perhaps life is not being SO unfair, perhaps life is making you stronger, making you think wiser, making you hold on tighter. perhaps life is just testing you, and just wants to see how you think - optimistic or pessimistic. and perhaps, life wants to see how you make decisions. perhaps you need to look at thing in another way, and you might see what life is up to. :)
• Philippines
5 May 11
yes, I guess I needed to look at my whole life and see the blessings that I'm given...
@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
4 May 11
I also sometimes feel, life is not fair. Life does not favor me. I also always trying to rise. However, all the problems I faced, made me re-sinking.
@cjfsunny (86)
• China
4 May 11
hi,maraplestiffy.the hard thing will go sooner or later.right now,you must hold on.you should have a firm faith God has known your difficulty and is dealing with this problem.just keep this faith.