Giving You an Advice
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@IntrovertShy (2780)
Marikina, Philippines
May 4, 2011 6:36am CST
People do give advices to those people who have problems. I had heard it how many times on a radio every time our maid turn on the radio. Her favorite radio program is "loveline". The disk jockey would advise the caller of what they should do when it comes to love problem. So, how did they know that the advice they've received is right and they would not commit mistake if they were to follow the advice of a disk jockey? So, how did we know that the person who advise us would not lead us to commit a mistake? Hmmm. Some people would blame you if something bad happen to them and the reason is you gave them the wrong advice that made their lives miserable. 
I do not if it is unfair, but for me it is unfair.
I do not if it is unfair, but for me it is unfair.1 person likes this
8 responses
@tiffnkeat (1673)
• Singapore
4 May 11
The world can tell you anything and everything. You have to be your own decision regardless. Nothing about fair or unfair.
@arakawaii (270)
• Philippines
4 May 11
For me asking advice is like asking someone's opinion and its up to you to take that advice or not, and when you take that advice it becomes your own action and n0t someone else.
@qianlizhifeng (468)
• China
4 May 11
We usually turn to others for ideas when we are facing difficulties and problems,though sometimes we don't know whether they really know the right way to deal our own problems.Why do we treat our own problems in such ways? In my opnion,when we are puzzled by our problems,we often get lost and don't have the ration to deal with them by ourselves. However,the problem is,does anyone else we are asking for help really has the ration to deal with the problems.Do they share the details of our problesm?Therefore,maybe we should calm down ourselves infront of the problems,and then think about them carefully to find the solutions.
@obe212003 (2299)
• Philippines
4 May 11
Actually the jocks on almost radio stations giving advice on air are just expressing their opinions relating to the problem at hand based from experience, learned or read. it is interesting to note that those jocks do have some credentials and what is surprising is their level of intelligence regarding social problems. we need not blame them if their advice is not guaranteed to solve our problems, but rather we should be thankful as we were given the opportunity of getting thoughts and ideas on how to deal with problems, and it is with no doubt that if we are the ones who need to scrutinize the advice based on our perception of what our options are. happy myLotting!
@visavis (5934)
• Philippines
4 May 11
Hello friend,
No problem listening advices from others if you are asking. Advices are called sometimes suggestions, idea or your 2nd opinion, it is not necessary to do or accepted it is your discretion. If somebody telling you to do it something it is not advice it is command to do, you can blame it. But in advices the final decision is from the person who asked advices... see you around
@altirbonganay (287)
• Philippines
4 May 11
We should never blame others for our own mess. What we are experiencing is more likely a product of what e have done. People give advice, we take them in. But the decision is still ours to make.
@SHAMRACK (8576)
• India
4 May 11
Dear friend,
Here in India that programme is not relayed. But giving false advise purposely is something misguiding. It do makes a relationship worse and no more trust is valued there. I feel to get a right person to give a better advise is much wise. At times even if some advise for betterment could not give the required results. Anyhow we all need advise, to go further. May be advise from the right people. 
@LetranKnight25 (33121)
• Philippines
4 May 11
Hello Introvert,
I think it's not bad listening to advice of other people who either had experienced it or believed they are smart enough to give an answer, knowing the situation is unknown. remmeber, in the end it is you who decide because you know each other and you gotta to weight whether such advice is really appropriate. some advice are completely for the benefit of opposing, but Love is blind and it doesn't think and there's no assurance.
What's unfair is the person listening actually followed the advise when it could risk loosing the relationship. the one giving the advice is not their shoes so it's easy to tell them something for their favor.
Introvert,
I think it's not bad listening to advice of other people who either had experienced it or believed they are smart enough to give an answer, knowing the situation is unknown. remmeber, in the end it is you who decide because you know each other and you gotta to weight whether such advice is really appropriate. some advice are completely for the benefit of opposing, but Love is blind and it doesn't think and there's no assurance.
What's unfair is the person listening actually followed the advise when it could risk loosing the relationship. the one giving the advice is not their shoes so it's easy to tell them something for their favor.