so i finally got my first job but...

i do realize that earning is the main priority for you. but any where you work this kind of situation is always come. you have to handle it carefully and during this period try to find another job which is more preferable than this but till then adjust yourself with the new environment.

firstly i hope things get better for you. i think everybody reading this knows the pain of a job that they do not enjoy. the most important thing is your health and if this job affects your health. if it continues why not talk to your husband, work out the money situation and i am sure he will support you in pursuit of your long term happiness. i was in a well paid job a few years ago but i was miserable. i tried to hide it but when i eventually told my wife she immediately told me to leave the job as we would get by. it was the best thing i did and it was made easier by sharing with my partner and having her support. good luck in whatever decission you make.

I hope things smooth out there soon. I can sympathize. If you need the money, well, it pays, and it is legal. I have had jobs where I was older and also where I was over managed. Good luck.

I am so sorry to hear that your first job is not really to your liking. But, since it's a first, then, it's okay for it to suck. Stick around for a while because you wouldn't want your resume to read that your first job lasted a week. That was my mistake. My first job lasted three weeks. And, it really looks awkward in my resume. It's a good thing that a few weeks thereafter, the old company folded up and the nasty partner was out and they renamed the company and rehired me. They agreed to include my three weeks in my employment history with the new company. It's really hard starting because older employees get to boss you around. I hope things will get better for you.

Oh dear, I am sorry you are in that state. But try to hold there for awhile while you try to look for a better employment. It is not easy to find work nowadays when you have to compete with a lot of unemployed people who are younger and have better qualifications than you do. So try to bear with them and hope that a better job opportunity will come to you one day.

You should start scouting for some other jobs, while you are at that job. Do it in your free days, or just keep on submitting resumes. But don't quit yet until you are fully hired to a new job. Meanwhile, bear with your managers. Just keep on working rightly, for them to see your perseverance in doing your work. Don't antagonize any of them, because you will need their nice comments if ever you are hired by another company who will do some background checking. Just be good in your present job and don't bother yourself so much with the people who makes you don't feel well in that job.

Sorry to hear that your job is not what you expected. Take it as experience and quietly seek another one while you are there earning so that at least while you are still looking you are gaining experience and some money. It has to be difficult to deal with the stress. Best of luck, and know that it is hard right now for many, as a lot of employers are really singling out over qualified employees. This seems to be my issue right now.

yeah you couldve just stopped at mcdonalds, definitley no the horror of that place. My first job was at mcdonalds, its a bad job, pretty much any fastfood is, but its at least something to bring in money till you find something better, and at least you get a big mack everyday(which is killing you slowly while you waste away all day over hot grills and fryers that viciously attack you, wondering why they havent fixed the air conditioner yet, fighting off the occasional white-outs from heat stroke, all for just 7.25 an hour. not too mention the manager next to you talking on his phone, making sure your working, who makes about ten dollars an hour more than you) But its not so bad, just make sure your not there for more than a year, unless your really serious about woring up the macdonalds carrerr ladder and becoming a manager, not really my dream but to each his own. Just stick with it however long you need to and find something better, it actually is a really good stepping stone job alot of people have their first job at mcdonalds and move on to be very succsesfull. its just about sticking to it and setting goals and thing like that.