Crazy in love with the wrong one
Philippines
May 4, 2011 6:45pm CST
I had a boyfriend before and until now im so crazy in love with him. i broke up because he can't give up txting his ex-girlfriend even in front of me. It is so painful to know that until the day we where on, she is still in love with the girl. I give up on him because I know he is much happy when they where together. c",)
After the day I broke up with him, I ask forgiveness that i want him back. That it was not intentionally breaking up but it is way of telling him that I was hurt of what he did to me. But he said, "it is ok with me that we are just friends.ouch.! the world seems to crumble and i can't stop myself from crying. i want to go far away, away from him, away from everybody!
Now, I am still in great pain pain and still so much in love with him. I can't help myself to love him every second of the day.Help.! what would be the best thing to do to forget him and all the memories together(memories keeps running on my head.).
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12 responses
@sunlight365 (24)
• China
6 May 11
Hello cherie
what i want to say is, your ex-boyfriend is the one who should be sad, not you, you should be happy. you know why?
because you finally know he dont love you. and your ex-boyfriend, he lose a girlfriend who love him deeply. so you are lucky. right?
Hope you find your Mr.right, the one you love him and he love you.
@obe212003 (2299)
• Philippines
6 May 11
stop being crazy and move on. out of sight, out of mind, so better keep yourself busy and do things you enjoy. yeah, it is better said than done, but hopefully with friends around or just simply spending time on things that interest you, it would help much. in time, sooner or later you would be able to get him out of your mind and someone "hopefully God-sent" will come in the right time at the right place.
@mods196621 (3652)
• Philippines
5 May 11
Yes it is craziness and i am telling you the truth we are both crazy. What happened you the same happen to me and we are like a carbon copy when it comes to love. I am also crazy when i feel that and i hate this feelings. REally crazy that of thinking of him always and every time of my life. There is no time almost for myself to move on and to smile. I am hoping that i can help you but we are both failed. Failed with the same feelings and emotion had on to the wrong people we love. Now i am sure that i was wronged and no wonder why because i am married woman and i feel in love to another man. What a shame right? But i have the reason why. Now sorry for this time i cant help u i am much worse now...
@sender621 (14893)
• United States
5 May 11
We can't choose who we fall in love with. Sometimes we make the wrong choices in love and it is difficult for us to see that. It can be hard to know if the one we love is the right one for us.
@joeyalberta (106)
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5 May 11
he's not really into you.dont forget that you need to love yourself first before anything.you dont need him to love you.. even though,its hard try to move on.try it. its for your own good..nobody can save you except for yourself.
@victoracostajr101 (42)
• United States
5 May 11
*no offense* Just think of how stupid his texting his ex made you look and feel. He apparently had more to tell her than he did you. if he was not willing to give you his undivided attention and the respect towards you by not texting the ex.....was/is he really worth it?
@eleven1984 (62)
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5 May 11
hi, how are you recently?
hope you are ok now.
in fact, every one even like a man/woman very much, the good result is that they can live togather, the bad is that they broke up and leave a scar in the heart,
but ultimately everything is ok, because time can help you forget something.
in a word, keep a good mood to face him, and let you think over if he can give you happliness in the future, if you leave him, please don't sad, because he is not the right man.
@toniganzon (72553)
• Philippines
5 May 11
It's not that easy to let go of someone you really love but when you're face with reality and when he told you that he's fine that you're just friends, it's pretty much obvious he doesn't want you back in his life. Probably he never loved you at all and just try to think about it and move on.
In my case when i want to forget somebody i just think that he never loved me at all. In that way the more I hate him the easier I can move on. Try to divert your attention to other things. Find a hobby that you neglected because of him or try meeting new people. Never listen to music that will remind you of him or even go to places that you once were. Go out with friends. Little by little you will surely see that the pain won't be that much but I know you would never forget him.
@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
5 May 11
I know how it feels to be brokenhearted. That will pass. Just don't relive those good memories with him anymore, if you want to forget him already.
Think of how much hurt he has given you by pretending to love you, when all along he still wants his ex-girlfriend. Do that every time you are reminded of him. Socialize and meet other men. Go with friends so you won't get lonely.
@bhanumanikanta (90)
• India
5 May 11
hai cherie
I read about your problem dear and in my view it is a very complicated problem. I can only give the suggestion that if you love him that much seriously then why to leave him no matter that if he texts his ex-girl friend and any other girl i dont think that leaving him is a good thing follow what your heart says and dont leave him i also suffered with my girlfrnd after several quarrels and disputes we united each other. And dont take any decisions foolish...
@tiina05 (2317)
• Philippines
5 May 11
hello,
Actually, what you are feeling now is natural because you just love in the wrong person and you cannot change it. But i am hoping that you already learned from now. The best way to do now is open it to your friends and I know they can help you more. Stop being stupid he did not even worth you?!
I know the person that is for you will come in the right time and in the right place. alright?
good luck
I know the person that is for you will come in the right time and in the right place. alright?
good luck @summer2011 (6)
• China
5 May 11
My boyfriend is leaving me,just like you it's for his ex-girl,I'm hurt,we've been together for two years,he's never told me about that,so I felt the whole thing is ridiculous,now it has past for almost two months,even though I know he's not worthy,sometimes I still miss him,I know we can never be together,so just move on,it's so hard!
