How do you confirm that you're a homosexual man?

@0310mg (73)
Philippines
May 4, 2011 10:05pm CST
I am a girl, but to a woman I am attracted. I don't understand myself lately, yet one thing is for sure; I'm not a lesbian. I love fashion and almost like what every girl wants.
3 responses
@tammy27 (1241)
• Philippines
5 May 11
hhhmmm...... my mom was a lesbian before, i mean she has girlfriends and all. but i dont know what dad did to her that she became a girl. hahaha but still there are times that she appreciates the beauty of other girls and she still shops on men's clothes sometimes, t shirts that is. well i dont think there's nothing wrong if we girls appreciate other girls' beauty. even me, i do tell my female friends "oh, that girl is pretty" pointing to another girl across the street, and for them it's just fine. appreciating is different from falling in love. :)
@0310mg (73)
• Philippines
5 May 11
I wish to meet a person like your dad, so that he can change me too. lol But then, the bottom line is; 'self-control'.
• Philippines
5 May 11
Hey you are not alone either. Same situation with you, I love fashion, had past boyfriends before I am both attracted to boys and girls. Before, I can't claim nor accept that I am a lesbian. But when I had this perfect relationship with a girl too ,ohh no. We are not kind of lesbians who walks,talks, wear clothes like guys. We still look hot chick and by look you can't conclude that we are together, we look like bestfriends. Both parents of ours doesn't have any idea yet all they knew was we are close friends best friends and we are staying together in a same apartment. Just try to deal with it, you don't have to be afraid though. Just be with yourself, thats the only way you could be happy. Goodluck.. Always remember you are not alone..
@0310mg (73)
• Philippines
5 May 11
I was relieve I'm not alone with this. But I just can't say yes to this. I don't like to bring disgrace to my family. For them, this act is so shameful and sinful...you know, they are devoted catholics..so conservative.
• United States
5 May 11
clothes and what you are attracted to are two different things for sure. I know think there is a true test. Take care.