i like him i just want to be friend with him,,,is it imposible...?

Japan
May 6, 2011 1:02am CST
I was work as singer and dancer in Indonesian club Kanagawa Japan...have one customer that I like,but He is my friend boyfriend too,I like him because he always teaching me Japanese,and kind person I don`t know why I love to see him around like I said I like him as friend and not more but one day I knew that my friend don`t like he hang on or stay around with me with many reason may be she afraid,He will had same feeling to me well I don`t really cares that thing as long can see him around even from far,and again I knew that my friend don`t allow him to come to our club again ,I was so sad feel very bad and get mad myself...why...she do all that thing...I don`t want to loose Him as a friend I just want to be friend to they are two.I am worry how if He had same feeling just want to be friend with me He just as my brother and I like Him...
3 responses
• Philippines
6 May 11
I agree with triplejazz...I think you have feelings more than that of a simple filial way since you mentioned that you miss him if he's not around...try and get over it...
• Japan
6 May 11
if that easy to forget him as anything....may be i wish never met him at all but i ll try to get over it
• Philippines
6 May 11
Well, there is really nothing wrong with being friends with your friend's boyfriend, you only have to be very careful because your friend might misinterpret it and you two will have conflict. I guess you have to try to stay away from them, because from what you have said i could tell that what you feel for him is not just plain friendship. You said that you want to see him always, that means you miss him. Naturally, your friend will get angry when she sees you and her boyfriend enjoying each other company.
• Japan
6 May 11
you may right since i feel sad,mad or more may be i have special feeling to him,,,or may be not i just willing to have some one as a big brother since I don`t have one,but stay a way may be is best thanks
@sabhari05 (263)
• India
7 May 11
If you like him then you have to ask your inner heart in what type you like him whether as Friend or Lover for about 1000 times and then if you feel you have lovely Friendly affection and he has the same opinion about you I definitely feel you would have a friendly relationship.