Four Years down Memory Lane
By abhi_destar
@abhi_destar (764)
India
May 6, 2011 1:17am CST
Hi all you splendid people out here.. it's been so long that I'm confident that no one will remember me. I myself was surprised to see my responses and started discussions having dates that say 4 years back. Time does move swiftly, however much you try to hold on to it. I remember how much I craved for your responses to my questions and also liked to see a long list of them. But I got busy with my hectic college curriculum, and then the job. My life has changed a lot, I myself have changed a lot. For starters, you'll find lot less hairs on my skull than I used to have, lol!!! So, tell me people, how do you feel your life has changed in the span of the last four years? Do you feel it has improved or gone downhill? What would you have changed if you could have gone back these four years? For myself, I can say surely, that I would have tried to enjoy life a bit more and not be so studious as I had been.. I miss my college life now. So tell me, my fellow mylotters.. Let me know about your feelings.
2 responses
@tammy27 (1241)
• Philippines
6 May 11
4 years ago?? hhmmm.... im still a rebel, my dad's still alive, i dont think of anything ut myself, my needs, and my joy. i never looked and appreciated my parents' efforts cause for me they always dont it my needs. but... that was 4 years ago. my life changed suddenly as fast as the time changed. i became a lot better, a better person i thought i'd never be..
@abhi_destar (764)
• India
7 May 11
It's never easy to give up a bad mindset and switching over to good. So I congratulate you on being able to do so. 
I hope you now appreciate your parents and what they did for you in your growing years, for they are the ones who will wring even their blood just to see you smile, no conditions apply. Even if you hate them, they will love you, though they may not show it always. Be a rebel in a good way.. don't get caught up in the mundane affairs of the world. Break free and make a new path for yourself. Do something that you and your parents will cherish four years further down the line. 
I hope you now appreciate your parents and what they did for you in your growing years, for they are the ones who will wring even their blood just to see you smile, no conditions apply. Even if you hate them, they will love you, though they may not show it always. Be a rebel in a good way.. don't get caught up in the mundane affairs of the world. Break free and make a new path for yourself. Do something that you and your parents will cherish four years further down the line. @tammy27 (1241)
• Philippines
7 May 11
thanks so much for those kind words. surely, my goal now is to make my parents and family have a happy and comfortable life.. as time goes by i have deeper appreciation on what they do, an all their efforts. too bad my dad is not here now. i wish he was still able to enjoy this great life we're having - no more rebel me, no more little-miss-perfect parents. just a happy life. :)
@LNDaisy (25)
• China
6 May 11
Four years ago I just enrolled in my college.I still remember the first day of my university life.I met my other three roommates.They are very nice and I think we could be close friend forever even after graduation. In addition,four years ago I looked like a boy. But nowadays I become a lady.
@abhi_destar (764)
• India
7 May 11
It's really essential that we mature as we go further down our life's path. It's imperative that we learn from our experiences, both successes and failures. Keep your good friends close to you forever. It's not something to be lightly taken. You have to take the initiative after the distance starts increasing when you graduate. Because from then onwards, all your lives will go along different paths, and you may not feel like it always to keep in touch, as you people won't have much in common to discuss about.
As for your appearance, I congratulate you on that. Each girl is a bud, I believe, which waits for its own season to fully blossomed beautiful flower. You have now blossomed in all your beauty. Let your beauty and fragrance dazzle all those in vicinity of you, so that it makes their day, too.
