Is There any words you've said that you regret ?
By Ifamous
@ifa225 (14460)
Indonesia
May 6, 2011 5:44pm CST
sometimes i just lost control of my words. there is so many words that i have said and i regret it.
but still, i can't make any guarantee that someday i'd never said it again.
how about you? what words you have said that you regret it? do you said it again?
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18 responses
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
7 May 11
Hi ifa
I am by no means a perfect person and have said some things in my life while angry that I can certainly look back with regrets. It has however with time allowed me to be a better person. Because when I think about the situations I can weep and hence now be better because of what had happened.
I do try now to take deep breaths and think before I open my mouth during angry moments. Do not want to add to the sad memories of not having thought before I spoke.
@ifa225 (14460)
• Indonesia
26 Jan 23
@hardworkinggurl so true, re think can change our point of view
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
29 Sep 11
This all came with lessons of sudden and abrupt outbursts, although I am not perfect either, it has made me rethink.
Thank you for the BR!
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@sender621 (14893)
• United States
6 May 11
In all honesty, i know there have been many times that i have said words that I have come to regret. sadly, once these words have been spoken, they can not be taken back. We have to choose our words carefully. they will follow us.
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@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
7 May 11
Hi ifa
Well, I believe words are never bad. It is only the tone in which we speak them out make them sound hurting. Yes, at times when I get angry I use such tones that make me feel bad and especially when I realize that it was my fault after all...
But that is done and the hurt and damage is started. Luckily we are humans and have a tendency to forget in due course of time and so the relationships continue even if we used such tones a few occasions.
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@victoracostajr101 (42)
• United States
6 May 11
at the ending of a relationship of 10 years: "i see you more as a good friend than anything else". been told that was kinda harsh and regret saying that now.
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@nangisha (3495)
• Indonesia
8 May 11
Hi Ifa....
I think I had many word thats I really should said because I know it will hurt the one who heard it but when angger take control over you sometimes you can not control it. I think the word I hate you the most often i said if I mad and feel really hurt.
I personally don't wanna hurt any one with my nasty word because I know how its feel to be hurt and not planned to put any one in the same situation like I have been dealing with.
@ifa225 (14460)
• Indonesia
25 Sep 11
Hi Nangisha,
sometimes i nag and complain about others behavior which really annoy me with a bad way.
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i know that is hurt, but sometimes i just don't know how to say it in a better way.
i only want the person know that he is annoying and hoping he woon't doing the same thing in the future
@gengeni (3308)
• Indonesia
28 Jul 11
Hi,
Yes, I often say something that does not need to say. And in the end I'm sorry to myself. But that does not make a guarantee for me to say it again. It only deals with emotional problems alone, if I'm wrong, then I could not control the situation to force me to say that bad. It's not easy to fix just me. Only a spontaneity that comes out of my mouth.
@changjiangzhibin89 (16797)
• China
7 May 11
People like my age know better than to talk irresponsibly.Experience teaches.We deep know that trouble frequently arises from mouth.However natural instincts of people vary greatly from person to person,some people are frank and outspoken,It seems that nothing can hinder them from speaking.
@changjiangzhibin89 (16797)
• China
27 Sep 11
Maybe,it is just the generation gap.What is slank words?
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@ifa225 (14460)
• Indonesia
26 Jan 23
@changjiangzhibin89 slank words is like a word which is very famous who create by the New age generation
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@cherryblossom (79)
• Canada
7 May 11
I think everyone has said some things they have regretted saying. Even the nicest person in the world could not possibly live a life in which they did not say anything that they did not regret later on. As for me, I have done this a couple times, yes. I also can't make any guarantee that I won't repeat myself again someday. No one is perfect.
@karstine29 (694)
• Philippines
25 Sep 11
I do regret things that I have done and said. I usually feel this. However, there is one thing I have not regretted in my life. It was the day that I have said to someone that I'll not text him anymore. From that day on, I really stick on what I have said. Though, he keeps on tempting me to text him back. And I actually lessen my exposure to him. I let him go actually. And I never regret that decision I have made. It is indeed better if we will just set each other free. So that we would not hope anything about us. Remember, hold on to your pride sometimes and never regret something because what you've said and done our once your choice to be done.
@zearah (5381)
• Philippines
25 Sep 11
"Regret" I had much but these make me stronger enough to correct those words I said then later I regret.In what way it makes me stronger? Because by the time goes and while I reminisce the past I could imagine I could say better than that.A word is sharper than a sword because it could wound any soft heart.
@sunny5u (2069)
• India
7 May 11
Hi ifa, almost everyone at some point of time will lost control on them and will speak such hurting words, even i do that, but all i can say is a SORRY but i know that doesn't take the complete pain given by me at that point of time.
@tiina05 (2317)
• Philippines
7 May 11
hello,
Like you because of angry I said many things that hurt a person. I regret it in the end because I just dont meant it at all. I just said like "I HATE YOU!", "I REGRET THAT I MEET YOU". something like that. but i promise that I wont say it anymore because I know if somebody will tell it to me I will also hurt about that.
@oninomar (505)
• Philippines
7 May 11
Sometimes people say something that could hurt the feelings of other people. We can't blame our self for that, we are human and human in nature commit mistakes. I always hurt many people because I don't mind or consider what they feel; as long as I am honest with what I say it is fine with me. But I was wrong. many people started to hate with me and some are getting away with me. Then, I realized that to make the things better, I must change. From being a bad person to a productive one.
Saying bad words to a person is the most worst thing I really regret of. If I have a chance to bring back time , i will. So that I won't hurt people and change what I have done. Before saying bad words with others was my daily word of wisdom, I always told in that many person especially when I am mad. But now, I am good, a good person that I could not imagine.