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I often complain with my life. I always wondered, why this should happen to me. Why do I deal with this. As if I was, are the most disadvantaged people. I feel, every person, experienced anything like this as well.

Hi, Life as two opposite sides of the coin, the coin is always rotating in the two sides. so also our lives. During my life, I've found lots of happiness and sadness, I can not tell lies to you, there are times when I can give a suggestion to others to get out of any existing problems. But in fact I myself can not easily get out of my problems.

Life is not always beautiful, is not always easy, life is full of temptation. We must be ready, to accept whatever will happen. As long as you can feel happy, just enjoy. If you're sad, try to make yourself happy. Complaints will not change the situation.

Hi Ifa!. There is time when I feel so down and bitter. I ask God allow this happen in my life and why He allow someone in my life thats going to hurt me. In time its made me realize every problem thats I face made strongger from time to time and able to understand others feeling. I am not a perfect person and not planned to be because I know its imposible to reach. I usually just remember the good time when the bad one come, its gave me strengh to carry on and realize life is worthy to fight for .

I often grumble, with all the bitterness of life, which I received. But grumble does not make things better. But grumble is something that is very easy to do, when all was very painful.

Yes sometime I am being very angry, but by days I have tried to change this attitudes, because all people have to face good and bad things, and this is normal around all the world facing difficulties in life.

Hi ifa Grumbling is the best way to get off that pain and frustration within you... But just ensure no one takes your grumble seriously... coz if this happens, you invite more trouble... The best way - Use a toy (here called a Hit ME - it is plastic inflated with blown air)... I had one and used to hit it really hard when I was that upset... one day, someone cut that thing into two and since then I started grumbling!

I am a rather happy person but must admit that there are times that things happen and it upsets my happy little world. So it takes me a bit of time but I always manage to bounce back. Discussing and getting things out in the open helps quite a bit to release the grumbling moments. This way you/I are not storing them inside making the moment to heavy to deal with.

I do feel sad with myself over my personal mistakes. But if my difficulties or frustration is caused by the government such as corrupt politician stealing money that would have been use for national development such as creating new jobs,housing,cheap and affordable food. I do not complain or grumble too much because it is not caused by me but by an external circumstances. I only feel sad and then carry on with my daily life. so I often feel sad in a stronger way if the pain I am going through is caused by me or my person. But if it is caused by things I do not have control. I do not feel too bad. I just take it as I see it.

Life is full of challenge and experience that we do not really expect to happen.. It is the plan of God that we can't predict and we just wait for that plan, we all have a perfect plan and God design it. All the hardship we have in our life is only a challenge for us to have more faith with Him and to become more strong in facing the problems we encounter and the problems we may encounter in the future. God is So good to us that He will not leave us in our darkest time of our life. God always protect us from any evil that we encounter in our daily struggle on our life. Sometimes we really feel that life is full of lovely and sunny time, because of the happiness we feel around us. Life is too short here on earth and it depends on us on how to cherish that time spending here..