We are all imperfect, aren't we?
By Ifamous
@ifa225 (14460)
Indonesia
May 6, 2011 6:14pm CST
we are perfect in our imperfectness.
and some people just can't understand how perfect we are. they always hope that we act kind and good just like an angel. when we do bad, they will judge as partially more with the bad.
that is not fair, isn't it? but that is the perfect of human mind in its imperfectness..
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13 responses
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
7 May 11
Hi ifa
In order for me to understand that not all people are not perfect, I must accept the fact that I too am not perfect. Therefore, because to date I am happy with me, I have to be accepting that not everyone can be perfect. Therefore some people while making mistakes I can evaluate the mistakes and figure out if the mistakes were either intentional and or out of imperfections.
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
7 May 11
hi hardworkinggurl I think too we learn that as we mature and learn to forgive others as we would want to be forgiven. I think too a lot of
relationships are broken because one of the couple cannot accept that the other person is not Miss Perfect or Mr perfect. he burps and that disgusts her, she let out a fart and thats time to separate now I am being facetious but so many times its just little things that people separate over
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@wiggles18 (2506)
• Canada
7 May 11
But, in a way imperfectness is perfection, as it makes things entirely balanced out. So, therefore you could say that we are all perfect. Whuh-oh, here comes the paradox... :D
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@gengeni (3308)
• Indonesia
28 Jul 11
Hi,
So far, I still have not found the perfect man. lol
I think every human being has strengths and weaknesses, this is where we need to understand what the meaning of sociality. As in perfect life, then the marriage will make us have to live for the perfect life partner. Two beings in one destination.
Nice day
@didi13 (2926)
• Romania
17 May 11
I like Platon and his philosophy, which says that no world of ideas, the absolute good, the absolute beauty, absolute love, to perfection, and we live in a world in which these ideas are reflected, however imperfectly, but I think that is exactly what makes our world so fascinating people, I think exactly that impefectiune, and the possibility of aspiration to something better, give us reasons to wake up in the morning and smile. If we were all perfect, we got bored, and we did not even realize that we are perfectly. And ultimately, what is perfect? Everything is so subjective, do not we all want the same thing, and if there would be a standard of perfection, and we all made ??according to this standard, we would be identical. How sad. In fact, this uniqueness of ours, is fascinating, and the ability to choose between good and evil, a free will, at least the apparent free will, power of error, or better, or to succeed to us born, to die, that makes us great! Hope- we are just wonderful because we are so imperfect, that we are human!
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@neliasni (76)
• Indonesia
24 May 11
It has been the nature of human, which is always a bad judge, to forget the good done. I myself, sometimes judge a person, the offense, which has been done to someone. I am very conscious that I did wrong. I personally, do not want, someone judge me, the mistake I did. Words, no human perfect, it is true, and accurate.
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@dpk262006 (58678)
• Delhi, India
13 May 11
Hi ifa!
I entirely agree with you that we are not perfect and others should understand that we are liable to commit mistakes. We just cannot do all the things in the right manner, all the time. Like-wise, when someone else makes a mistake, we should realise that s/he is also not perfect and s/he be given the benefit of doubt.
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
7 May 11
ifa225 maybe its because I have lived a long time I have learned that as I am not perfect I can for give others more easily when they are imperfect as I know we are all human and humans are not perfect in all things,I have mellowed a lot and h ave tempered my quick temper too.
so I am much easier to get along with and easier to forgive others for being imperfect too.
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@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
7 May 11
Hi Mrs. Hatley,
Makes complete sense, if we can remember that all are human forgiveness is not difficult to achieve. At times it does depend on the nature of what was caused and amicability is easy to ascertain. Therefore knowing that people are human with feelings we are bound to make mistakes.
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@shibham (16977)
• India
7 May 11
Hi ifa..
Nobody is perfect in this world and as a human being we both have merits and demerits. No one can judge us as s/he is also the same but remind it... criticism makes us perfect and there is a vast difference between criticism and back biting.
Have a nice day.
@ckciasigurl (2081)
• Italy
9 May 11
hi ifa225 no body is perfect i can relate to you because sometimes my parents get mad and they always tell me that, i kept in my mind that no one is perfect , that's why we are here to learn from our mistake and trying to be perfect even though we can't be perfect sometimes.Yes does not fair especially in judging someone that they do not know why is that person doing it, because they didn't let that person explain.
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@blogger01 (124)
• Philippines
7 May 11
That's the best thing in humans, being imperfect. With being imperfect, we are able to appreciate the small things in life. Because of imperfection, we are able to realize our mistakes and learn to correct them.
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@sanijas83 (270)
• Latvia
10 Jul 11
If I cannot be perfect, I should not feel depressed because of some past events I cannot change anymore. I should continue doing something I am good at. The one who is afraid to start something new in the life being afraid of making mistakes unfortunately might let the life pass by. One can go, fall, get up and keep on going the road that is called life. What is the use of living without enjoying every day.