when decided to have a baby, what should be much care?

@Jailey (107)
China
May 7, 2011 3:44am CST
Now we decided to have our own baby, but I am really nervous about that, and aslo I do not know what things I can not do.
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8 responses
@barehugs (8973)
• Canada
9 May 11
Its important to understand that having and raising a baby is quite natural and normal. In other words just do what comes naturally, and remember that every one of your parents and grandparents all the way back to Adam, were successful in raising their babies, otherwise you would not be here!
@Jailey (107)
• China
9 May 11
yes, and hope everything goes well
@tiina05 (2317)
• Philippines
7 May 11
hello, Well, that is good for you of course. If you decided to have a baby you must be prepared of it, you can call your mom for guidance because she knows best. right? Don't be nervous on it just be happy and enjoy having a family and children.
@Jailey (107)
• China
9 May 11
Thank u , and wish u happy all the time.
@kquiming (2997)
• Philippines
7 May 11
that's how i felt at first when i had my first baby. which is natural of course. talk to your doctor, she could give you advice and valuable tips. they'll even provide a booklet which you can read and learn a lot from. just gather all the information you can from books, magazine, internet, and try talking to other mothers who have already gone through the experience of having and raising a baby. Good luck!
@Jailey (107)
• China
9 May 11
Thank u, hope that will not so nervous
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
7 May 11
Nothing to worry about having a baby. You just need to enjoy and you must be prepared emotionally and financially. Once you get hold of your baby,you will realized the happiness that you have never felt in your whole life. have a great weekend
@Jailey (107)
• China
7 May 11
Thank u, my friend, have a good weekend
• Indonesia
7 May 11
hi jailey, baby is mercy and dream of new couple in whole world. I dont hink you have to doubt about it. The first pregnancy is always hard for some people ( I'm not yet married, but read a lot about that ). It's important to you to be much ready and prepare your healthy. You must consume much vegetable and fruit so it help you to prepare the pregnancy. I hope you have a good luck
@Jailey (107)
• China
7 May 11
thank u so much my friend, and I learn a lot from u
@gyani1978 (147)
• India
7 May 11
Hello Jailey, Don't have to worry about this, by taking step one after another everything will get fine. During pregnancy have to take care much, don't do hard work or say heavy loaded things. Take a bed rest for first & last three months but need to take a little bit of round at evening also take a more green foods and fruits for gaining hemoglobin. During pregnancy some ladies hemoglobin goes down. So must take care of it. Well I am male still I said you so many things as I have faced my wife. By the way Best of Luck for your new journey.
@Jailey (107)
• China
9 May 11
learn so much from ur saying, and believe u are a good father and good husband. Wish u happy!
@myl999 (2093)
• India
9 May 11
congrats to decide to accept gods unique gift and many things you have to take care of..you have to take good nourishing diet for you both you and your baby..you have to read good things and be away from negative thoughts...you have to plan for expanses from the starting and you also just start reading about general everyday problems that babys have and how to react upon having them..doctors available but still the grannys are the store of remedies which are handy and works too and try to share their experiences by the way your responsibilities will not end till you leave this world as a mother...even when you are in bed and your sons are at 70s that is mother hood which you will experience.
@Joe_Black (253)
12 Aug 11
Congrats!! I'm sure you've made the right decision!! I think that the only thing you have to make sure to do is remember that no matter what the baby does, you must always know that it did not choose to be with you but you chose it! Never neglect or hate the baby because it takes much time and care... just love it. =)