Lady no...17... Is she fool?

Kill that man and everyone who lies when starting this so called love affair.

hi shiby, This guy is not you? In some part the girl was foolish one but he just trusted and loved that LIAR when we are in love we cannot think all the negative side we always looking for a positive one its just her doesn't turn out to be good. As i told you we can whoever we want in Cyber World there are no assurance that the person we always talking can be 101 percent honest with us. If i am on her shoes well i will cross the bridge when i am there Life is full surprises and i learn a lot from the past being impulsive doesn't help me I want to ask you if you were the guy will you go to her country and meet her? have a nice day!

dear bhai, It's her passion and love that made her blindly in love!

If she was a teenager, i would say she was naive and parents should have kept an eye on her or something. May be they should have guided her better on not trusting people on internet. But, a adult doing this is just sad, i mean, she might be lonely and way over her head and may be not in consequences to think of the consequences. Argh, either way its sad and people misleading others are just pathetic and seriously such things drive me crazy.

Well, that is just awful of the guy to do that t his friend/lover. The girl is quite a fool ,if the guy wanted to marry then he should go to the girl,not the other way around. But yes, love is blind, for many years they became friends but the guy just betrayed her.. Hope the girl finds a better guy.

Hi amigo! I think the best word for her is she is a victim not a fool! The man was the one who is totally fool because of what he did,he lied! Women in nature are passionate,we easily put our trust to our boyfriend,believing that the man is trustworthy but in the end,knowing the truth sometimes hurts!

Hello Shibham, Else what? I agree the other person is smart and make her fool. He is caught now and she must be learnt a great lesson from this. I don’t know how she got the courage to visit another country on somebody’s promise. Hope she will gather the courage to face the reality and get a suitable person in her life very soon.

I wouldn't have done the same thing as she did. I have gone on dates with people I have met online, but only in my own country. I think it is too risky to go to another country to meet someone I only know online. I don't know for sure if I can trust the other person or not and I don't know if he has been honest or not. I would also be worried about my safety if I went to a foreign country to meet someone I only knew from the internet. There are people who have found their spouse on the internet even though they were from different countries, and sometimes those stories have a happy ending, but I personally I wouldn't take the chance.

If the boy was already married with kids,then what was the purpose of his calling the girl to his home country? The girl was emotionally fool as she should have asked for no marriage certificate from the boy as these types of cases are increasing day by day. I am feeling sorry for her.If she had the guts she should told his wife everything that had happened between the boy and herself.

Gosh! Stupid, sorry I will really have to say that! She should know that at this generation a lot of insincere people are scattering, she must not trust anyone easily especially that it is just someone she met online. Internet people are so tricky and trickiness is very easy to accomplish! I really think she is a fool. And i guess, its not love is blind because for me its not love at all. Love needs to reciprocated and REAL. If I were her, I should've not trust the guy and just play with this game. She should know it from the start. Why? Because it is already reported all throughout that many we're already a victim of such issues.

Promise to marry is legally binding. Having said that I do feel that only the innocent - note I use the word innocent and not fool - fall victim to such ploys. Will I do the same? :) Actually unless we are in the same situation, we cant really give an honest answer, can we? I mean, I am not in that situation so I honestly state that I wouldnt. But hey, I am not in love with a guy, so .. that is not really a correct opinon. Why and why not? Why depends upon how much I like the person and how confident I am about my analysis. Why not? Ok - what for - in my case? I have everything that I need for retirement. Now why should I get a bad name at this late stage.

I think she really fell in love with that guy. I couldn't say that she was really blinded by love cause when she learned that e is a family man, she returned to her country. I can say that she was careless to go in another country not thinking of her as a woman. The man is the one I think to come to her if he really loves her.

If somebody inlove the tendency will be blind or deaf for other thing only her will be always right.. see you around

I admire the heart and bravery of the girl to adventure to an unknown country and take that chance, guided only by her feelings, thats actually very romantic, but as romanticism tend to be, it was a foolish thing to do. But if she would make that experience positive, she should be certain that even when a foolish thing to do, she is a very pasionate and decided, strong woman; she should not let this to let her down, but instead, be a testimonial of how strong and passionate she is, and the man that one day deserves to be with her, will have to try really hard to be worthy of such a woman

love is surely blind, but she doesnt belong to this kind love. she is just a girl who is simple to the society, hope she can learn something from this miserable experience.

Hi shibham, I will not call her a fool! I will say naive. Naive because she is way too young, maybe not in years but young in love. She allowed herself to fall for someone she has not met in real life. See online is tricky,as it is offline too. But online she has no idea what is behind the screen. Granted there was a web cam but who is to say what happens after the web cam was off. She allowed herself to fall for a man for which really all she knew was what he told her. She could not see any of it so falling for what he said makes her naive of love. While in love we must really know a person and not just but what the person says as actions speak louder then words. She had no way of verifying anything as there was no one but him to speak to. If it were offline she perhaps could have seen for her eyes some inconsistencies. Once her heart got involved it was too late to questions anything. If it were offline she could see more inconsistencies as oppose to excuses as to why they could have not met for a day online. So not a fool for falling in love but fooled by someone whom she felt she was in love with. Very naive girl!

hello! Whateva already said that perhaps she was that naive. If she was 17, then maybe she was naive enough to think that she can already take care of herself. I am not too quick as to trust a guy in the internet. Personally, I would still seek my parents' advice in almost everything, including going to another country to meet a man I've never met before. Is it "love is blind?" I don't think so. I think she just saw an opportunity to make a new life in a new country, and so she grabbed it. :)

Where were this girls parents when she was talking like that to someone she met online???? When I was in school we had one or two assemblys a year to discuss the dangers of talking to strangers online. This girl was no victim and she wasnt naive, she was dumb. I am not saying she deserved what she got, that was horrible of that man to do but they are both equally at fault. Parents need to watch what their children do online and constantly remind them of the dangers. What if this man was a rapist or murderer? Of course, the family would be blaming the man and the internet. More parents need to realize they cant let the internet be a babysitter, monitor what your kids are doing. Even if they dont like it one day they will thank you for keeping them out of trouble.