I try
By Sammy224
@Sammy224 (50)
United States
May 9, 2011 1:55am CST
I try to think of the good things and I try to see the good in people but sometimes it dose not work that way. I was with my ex for 5 years and I still try to see the good in him *for my kids* but there really is no good left to see at least not for me, when we lived together he would leave us every few months because we got in to a fight or his mom wanted him to go back to IL *at the time we lived in North Carolina* But any way when my son was a month old that was the first time he left us and he was leaving us to go to IL to be with some other chick and I didnt find that out untill he changed his mind and came back.. He Cheated on me numbers of times more then I know I am sure.. But the last straw was me inviting him to come to the beach with us last summer and he said he would be there so we said ok we will be there at like 3 and at the time we werent living together because we were trying to work things out *or so I thought* anyway when I got to the beach he was there with the women he had been cheating on me with, I got pissed punched him in the face didnt listen to him because by that time I just said if you wanted to try to work this out you wouldnt be here with her. So anyway I trusted him yet again and last october I was on face book and looking at his profile one day and it said *Engaged to Kayla some body* need less to say I am not Kayla.. Needless to say I was pissed off..
So I have started to see other people, but I dont think I can trust men so easy anymore at least I am trying to becareful.. But I know I will still TRY to see the best in people. I want to see people as good and not all bad.
4 responses
@xheartx (5)
• Philippines
5 Dec 11
I am so sorry that things didn't work out for you and him. :(
I hope by now, you are feeling better. It's really nice that you are looking into the positive aspect in life and really being optimistic about it too. I believe that the more positive you are, the more good things happen. All is not lost, the fact you are still living on earth, there is still something you can hope - good things will still happen.
@dandozy (17)
•
9 May 11
So sorry it ended that way, you sound like a lovely person and I truly believe in Karma, sit back and enjoy your time on your own, good things will come your way and you will learn to trust again. Not all men are akin to him, you deserve better than that and will, one day, find your prince :O)
@Graceekwenx (3160)
• Philippines
9 May 11
This is a verrrrrrry good attitude Sammy and i so admire women like you. You are a verrrrrrrry selfless woman who really tried to put the family back together again.
It is just so saddening on how underserving partners belittle efforts to revive a waning relationship. They could have at least tried to patch things up for the sake of the kids. To bring that lady on the beach is sooooooo downright thoughtless, uncourteous and immature!
@stary1 (6612)
• United States
9 May 11
I am so sorry to hear things didn't work out. I give you credit for trying, especially since a child is involved. I think it is admirable to see the best in people, but you need to be realistic too. I approach people wanting to like them and trust them until the prove me wrong...some deserve more chances. I wish I could say this guy does..but sadly it looks as if he isn't a strong man. Maybe he will grow up and take responsibilities, but in the meantime you have to be strong for your child. I wish you only the best!!
