How Could You Say You Love Me?

love is a powerful word and the most powerful feeling. however, at times it is over-rated and over-used and likely misunderstood when misused. so complicated noh? hehe you have several questions and i would like to have separate answers if i may. what do i feel when someone says he/she loves me but we've never even met? - i'd say i would be flattered and i appreciate it. but it depends whether i should take it seriously or not. i'm more likely to accept the friendly "i love you" rather than the romantic "i love you". but if i'm committed to someone else already, i'm not likely to be throwing "i love you's" anonymously online. lol goodness no. what if the person never believed in love yet kept on saying the words? - i'd appreciate the words just as much as the person meant them and believe in them. different people have different takes on love and how it is used. those who feel might not express it in words and those who say it frequently may not really feel it truly. again, i'm more likely to accept the friendly version rather than the romantic version. hehe my mylot profile, eversince i started here, has kept on a personal message that i try to live with everyday. HAPPINESS IS A CHOICE we decide whether we want to be happy or not, to believe in love or not, to believe in the i love you's or not, to love the other person or not. do whatever makes you happy but i'd say, we should be responsible for whatever decisions we take. tc

bhaby, How could you say love him..unless you try

Hi bhaby.. Are you serious? I mean do you really love him? Dont take a quick judgement rather you should try to know maximum about him. My last discussion is a caution to such relationship. take enough time before final decision. By the way, who is there to replace me? have a good day. take care.

I hope that I am understanding what you are saying; this person doesn't believing in love but yet they are saying that they love you, yes? Well, that would be very strange don't you think? What is it that they are trying to accomplish by telling you this? I think you should really be true to yourself and know that this kind of relationship is not a good one. You may be setting yourself up for a heartache, but you may already know this. I hope you think it through, and good luck. Don't listen to the wind, listen to your heart.

i really think is very hard if you love someone and cant even meet with this person. i can say that from my own experience. i love a boy that is living in other country. we cant see each other near neither go out neither hold each other. we been together for awhile and now i just feel lost without him. i can say to you that i truly love him. i dont know if he knows how much it is but i really do love him. i dont know what to do now that i lost him :(

if there is anything that you want is there is anything i can do just call on me and i send you along with love, from me,to you i have got everything that you want like a heart that is,oh,so true just call on me and i send you along with love from me to you -this a beatles lyrics.may be it can define how to say someone that-he is in love.is not it?

hi bhabycach easy as I do not love you lol nor know you.lol. how could any one say they love me if I never met them? this is not making much sense here.Also if I was committed to someone else why would I have to worry about expressing love to another person. and how do you know the person does not believe in love that keeps saying he loves you, Look love is not something you can take out and weigh on a scale nor can you p prove he or she loves or does no love you.just wait until you feel this unexplainable feeling of real love you will know then if somone loves youback. do not worry so much about all this stuff. when someone really loves you you will damned well know it for sure.

hi.... Yes its very worst to be in a situation that is in love with a person but not able to express it. I am also in same situation. Loving the girl from 3 years yet not able to express it. Its really very worst. How ever i expect only to express my love in such a way to her so that she will not get disturbed and feel bad even though she does not like me. If she likes me it is the most happiest thing in the world for me. Any way nothing is in my hands except love in heart. Any way happy lotting friend. Take care...

Hi. well well well.. :)) I don't know where to start.. hahaha Sometimes we can't predict what other people think and feel about love. Some people love someone because they are admire of its outside beauty. Some people love someone because they just develop it along its way and they never intended to do and feel that.. We are all human, and we are all capable of loving more that one. We can have a relationship with a person but still we want to have finding some love from the others. This is a generalize opinion for all of us as human. God created us to love only one and to love God. But because sin spread among us, we now capable of loving others as we love someone.. When I was in my teenage life, life of experiment and experience. I tried to love someone whom I never meet. I just communication each other just like having a relationship, we enjoy each other conversations on phone. We always talk about our life, just like a girlfriend-boyfriend relationship. We care and concern each other,we tell and consult each others problem. The day came that I can't help me self to see her.. I make a way to see her I came to their place around 1hr to travel by land.. well then after we met we establish a good relationship as girlfriend- boyfriend. But just like other relationship some problems will just appear and until the love you felt with each others will just fade away.. Sometimes you can't choose the right attitude you want for your partner,

hey but there is one thing some like me who says for not joking.in my opinion all who "i love you " to many people is a cheat.god has created one partner for us and a shall get them at the right time.

just do what you want to do. express your feeling. at least you will not be haunted by the words, 'what if?'