MoM or Girlfriend ?? ^_^ !!
By jaspal941
@jaspal941 (107)
7 responses
@menace730 (506)
• Philippines
12 May 11
Jaspal...there is no choice here. Love is expressed in many different ways. When you fall in love with a women and think it is time to leave the nest so to speak, your mom and dad will understand. My question to you would be, are you ready to make a commitment to this girl and leave you nest. This will be a big decision for you because you will be leaving the security of your home. There is no reason for you to leave home because you have fallen in love. You are young and have plenty of time, so I would suggest that you sit tight and make sure this is what you really want to do. tell your parents that you have fallen in love and they will guide you.
@jaspal941 (107)
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12 May 11
Hmm you are right but my question is that what you use mom or girlfriend when there is only two choices and which you choose.
@gyani1978 (147)
• India
10 May 11
Hi,
I will choose my mom and dad, because they are special for me not girlfriend.
The girlfriend can be get so many but mom and dad are only one who gives the birth to us and growth us with well educated to become a good professional person.
@jaspal941 (107)
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12 May 11
hi gyani1978!!
Thanks for you good response and i think you are right and me also choose my mom and dad because Mom and Dad make our life and only with the help mom and dad we are living here and got a good place in society.
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
9 May 11
Once you decided to get marry and have your own family,whether you like it or not you must leave your parents house to lived by your own.
Unless you are an only child,then maybe you can asks your wife to stay with your parents...that depends on the situation.
@Matpunk85 (1066)
• Italy
9 May 11
I choose my gf of course! This not because I don't love my parents but because we need to build a family from ourselves. To go to build a new family is necessary, if even your mom stayed at home with her parents you weren't born.
@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
10 May 11
It's important to always love your mom. It's a good decision though however to have your own life. To be with your girlfriend who may in time become your wife. You can also look at it in a positive light. The love you have for your mom can reflect on how good you will treat your girlfriend. Just remember that just because you have a girlfriend doesn't mean that you stop loving your parents. You just begin to start and develop a life of your own.
@783748 (178)
• Philippines
15 May 11
You don't have to choose between your girlfriend and your parents. You can always love them all at the same time. The only problem would be if your parents don't like the girl. If this happens, you can still continue to love your parents but if you really love the girl, you have to fight for her. You have to prove to your parents how much you love the girl. If they see that, they'll eventually realize that they can't do anything. If they love you, they should also love the girl and accept her for you.
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
9 May 11
i think that even if you have a gf you dont need to stop loving your mum. is true that everyone sooner or later leaves their mum house but thats bcs thats how life is. we need to have our own life with the one we love the most also. but sure we keep loving our mum's. i think that you do right thing by loving both of them. the truth is that both should be loved and cared. besides the love we feel for a mother and for a lover are different. the boy i love my feelings for him are different from the ones i feel for my mum^^