Is Technology is the thing that made Love degrade ?
By stylewaves
@stylewaves (1060)
India
May 10, 2011 4:35am CST
Once before the invention of Communication devices , people used to take a Long journey and stay with his or her lover and have a Good and long lasting relationship .Even if they do like that , they will be having topics to share in between them that they stored for a long time . But as the technology raised they are making the contact and developing their relationship easily . As they make contact frequently and chat continuously they lack things to share in between them . So their love starts to fade . Do you accept with me ?
7 responses
@sabhari05 (263)
• India
10 May 11
No technology has only increased the love between two peoples the cell phone the best technology has increased the love and speech between two lovers and given a chance to understand each other and So I feel technology has only increased the love rate.
@stylewaves (1060)
• India
11 May 11
Hello friend , as far as we heard that the Olden love stories were much wonderful and they were much stubborn in their love and affectionate with their lovers but nowadays they can easily split up . The mobiles would have developed the love , but the same mobile makes you to hook up for other girls when you are in love with some other girls
@saratafuri (16)
• United States
11 May 11
i think that with little technology or all the technology in the world if someone is going to find other girls to hook up with they will. Technology may have made it easier to find others and talk to them, but in the end it is the choice of the person and not technologies fault. i for one think that technology has helped my love life, but that is because i have chosen to let it help me instead of choosing it to help me sabotage my relationships. the thing in itself is not bad, it is how someone chooses to use it. this is true for all inanimate things that we as humans use. we can use it in a negative or positive way my friend.
@TallPaul69 (70)
• United States
11 May 11
This is a very interesting thing to point out. Technology has significantly changed the way relationships work. A couple are always constantly talking because of text messages and facebook. It makes things stressful because if you text someone and they don't text back, you automatically assume there is a problem. I can definitely see how technology would make love degrade. It is much easier to get tired of someone if you are in constant contact. Also, it makes it easier for someone to cheat because technology makes it easier to be in contact and meet random people.
@stylewaves (1060)
• India
11 May 11
Thanks for the helping hand buddy , you spotted the awesome thing .
@SHAMRACK (8576)
• India
10 May 11
Dear friend,
I feel the love is easily accessable than before, hence the demand and value of love has been reduced than before. No more Taj Mahal, no Romeo and Juliet, no songs of Liala Manjunum. As the technology has helped a lot in easy access of love than before the demand of love than before has changed a lot. May be techology helps like sms, telephone, mobile, internet, dateubg so on has made lot of love success, on the other side there are also lots of breakup. But I feel the value of love has benn gone than before.
@stylewaves (1060)
• India
11 May 11
Thats the same thing i was telling ,The technologies like mobiles ,internet , chatting , SMS, phone would have developed the love , but the same technologies makes you to hook up for other girls when you are in love with some other girls
@megamatt (14291)
• United States
11 May 11
No, people always have, and always will be the reason why love fails time and time again. There have been relationship difficulties a hundred years ago where technology has not really been all that advanced. There will be relationship difficulties a hundred years from now, where technology is far more advanced than anything we can ever imagine and believe me, a lot will be able to happen a lot of changes.
In the end, the problem is still the same. The problem is with the inherit flaws of the people. You can take them back to an era with no technology and there is still a chance the relationship will fail for a different reason. The thing that triggers the failure will continue to appear to change, but it is just the same face, with a different hat a lot of the time. Problems will exist regardless of what happens or how far along technologically we are.
@redvakaurvaki (4216)
• Indonesia
11 May 11
I agree with you. By niw all people busy with their gadget and dont realize the presence of other. Even it depends on the people character -not all of the people, but this is most situation I found in all around me.
@in212857 (67)
• India
11 May 11
the feeling which one can get by writing a love letter with the help of a pen and paper and than to decorate that with the help of colorful sketch pens can never come back in mailing E-Cards
yes the technology has degraded love now it is very eay to say I Love You but the intensity of love has decreased
@SHAMRACK (8576)
• India
10 May 11
Dear friend,
Love is moving in another as technology is used for mostly to find love and express our expressions of love. I feel love has become much easy accessible through technology. As it has become much easy than before its demand has been also reduced. Much of valued loves are becoming lessor, no more Romeo and Juliet is arised, no more Taj Mahals are build, no more Lila Manjunam songs are heard. May some sms, telephonic call, moves, dateing next day break up ends and starts with other. But still there are trustworthy and valued loves but I feel not as before.
