need quick help

Hi renah I think your Bf is just too afraid he might lose you to that guy on the line. But can you really or honestly say that your feelings for that guy is only like a brother?if you say yes, if I were you, you should tell him the truth so that you won't feel any guilt or whatever anymore. You are not sure and you don't know about what that guy have on his mind so it's better to be safe than to be a victim, I am not saying or presuming that guy is a criminal but as we already know, it's just too hard to trust anyone nowadays. I hope you get my point.

How often you are chatting online with your guy friend? Did you tell your boyfriend before about your guy friend or he just found it out? If your chatting with him constantly and your bf didn't know about it then he really has the right to be suspicious, explain to your bf that your just a good friend with him and renah he doesn't have the right to command you who is the right friend for you or the other way around. Last question do you have feelings with your guy friend?

I think it's best if you didn't talk to the guy anymore. Why should you talk to someone and cause troubles with someone you truly love? Just don't stir the relationship, it's obvious your guy doesn't want the guy talking to you, so just ignore the guy. He'll get the hint.

Hi. renah007. Welcome to myLot. I think that you should kindly explain to him that you will not be able to contact him anymore. I also feel that you should tell your boyfriend that you and him had just a friendly relationship going on and nothing more. I feel that your boyfriend should respect you too. He can't pin you down. You are not completely obligated to him and you are not married to him yet. You should be free enough to have outside relationships with males and females just as long as you are being faithful to your boyfriend.

hello renah, If there is no reason for your boyfriend to be jealous of maybe you can explain it to him that you and the guy is just a friend unless you don't have time for your bf because of your chat mate You can also tell your chat mate in a polite way why you can't talk to him anymore WElcome to Mylot

well first thing u should relize is that ur boyfriend has jealousy which isnt a good thing if u have nothing to hide then he needs to understand that. in my opinion you should message the guy back becuase if hes like a brother then you should be able to talk to him truat me ive went through the same situation jus discuss thiss with your boyfriend in a calm manner an come to an understanding if your boyfriend loves you so much then he will trust u no matter what good luck!

I would tell him and let him know that you haven't contacted him again. But would like a chance to explain to him why you can't talk with him anymore.