If love is not a selfish thing. Then why we are not ready to accept break ups?

Hi balaji: I understand your point of view but at the same time I think that we are not usually prepared for a break up because all the beautiful things that we have lived with someone we love are so beautiful that we don't want to lose it. Yes, it must be selfish that you don't want to lose somebody but at the same time if you feel that way is because you value this person a lot. At first you probably feel that way but we need to understand that if we love we have to let go and respect the decisions taken by the person we say we love. ALVARO

Hi there! Experiencing break up is never an easy thing, esp when you really love the person so much. Every relationship is having ups and downs but when you truly love the person you will never count the things that've gone wrong, but there's always an exception like cheating. Pain is part of a relationship, it makes your relationship stronger and sometimes fall apart. It only depends on how both of you manage your relationship. Break up is really painful, it will not easily disappear the pain that you felt. Love is not selfish. Time is important in healing a broken heart. That's why we are not ready and sincerely accept break ups, if we really truly love the person.

Love can be and is a great thing. However, there are a lot of times where it can really warp a well adjusted person. Twisting them to the point of unhealthy obsession. Then again, there is rarely a healthy obsession, when something can really qualify to that point. Love is not supposed to be a selfish thing but the belief that love is there, that can really be a strong thing. If we believe something, then it could drives us a bit around the twist. Then there are people who are just unwilling to let go. That is rather frustrating. But these people, they really are unable to admit even the slightest amounts of failure. There are so many people who are just unable to really admit that there are a lot of things that are beyond there ability to control. Still, truly loving someone means knowing when to let go, so you don't make the other party miserable. Far easier said than done.

At first, we tend not to accept break up from our love one. We try to recapture the love that was lost from the party breaking up with you. WE cannot accept that he/she doesn't love us anymore. Much more, we cannot accept the fact that you won't be seeing her/him anymore. When you love, you should be ready to be hurt.

it is a concept and when you are empty, you can't understand why you have to feel other people love. It is clearly apart and once people realize that they will find out that an emotion is an emotion and not the memories of or effect of an outside validation - why am I not loved, etc That is why you can experience love in an greater expanded flow of energy in endless space and time.

I think it's hard to live without someone that you love, memories...just memories, you can't feel your love, can't touch her, so someone become crazy..

hi there, i think love is a feeling that nobody could explain, personally i think that love is a mistery, it can change from hate to love real quick, like you said cannot accept break ups, some take revenge against the love one, most of the time given hard time to the other, some says "if you are not for me, you will not be for anyone else" sick love, love sometimes can be confuse people think they own the person who they love.