how do you deal with this problem..?

Didn't you and your mom try to lovingly talk to her? There could be an underlying reason for her anger to the both of you, so it's better that you discover it this early so it could be settled. Why not try to go with her one time and watch her favorite local band perform maybe. Or maybe watch DVD of that local band performing? It could be a starter for your mom, you and her to be in good terms again.

As a parent, don't to strict to your child, just watch them and let them do whatever they want as long as they didn't do something that can harm theirself. As you know that on that age, they can do anything if they feel that they have been force by others. They want to be the number one, king of the king.

I have a 16year-old brother and I think the main reason why he's not acting out that much is because he doesn't have a lot of 'facilities' in his room. He doesn't have television or computer in his room, but he does have a computer but not in his room. I think it's a matter of placement of stuff, if you keep on putting everything inside her room what would keep her from staying inside the whole day? I know there are issues during that age, we are just really angry at just about everyone and anything, but one good way to do so is not to tolerate these. I'm not saying that you should punish or such, just don't allow her to eat inside, no television, or she should be given responsibilities or so. Sometimes I think black-outs or power-outs are a good thing to happen in most households today.

Well it is pretty normal for a young girl to spend more time in her room as opposed with the family. I know that my girls did at that age. Still, 24 hours? That's way too much. She should be also spending time with friends and also, is she not in school?

To be honest, this is just a general teenager thing. I have yet to meet one that never did anything or never acted of the sort. It's become a cultural norm here in America. You just have to let nature, for want of a better term, take its course. She'll grow out of it eventually.

i've never experienced or encountered that..hmmm maybe your sister need some kind of attention comes from her family ..at that ages they felt they are alone no ones loves them,so the only things they do is to stay away her self on you or her family.So all you have to do is just give her more attention.

She must have watched some movies where girls of her age behave that way. Or even her peers must be telling her of their behaviour at home. This phase is temporary and will soon pass off.

Hi anjiel, I was same like your sister at my 15s. This is such a age where they can provoke to anything raised against them. Set her free. I felt bored after sometime and i felt i was matured enough to decide good and bad as i grew up. So best way is to set her free and same time talk about her likings towards the band, so she will start communicating with you and your mom. Communication can bring in more maturedness.

ell she's 14. When your 14 you feel like everyone hates you so you react to everything with anger. They like to be alone sometimes and separate themselves from others. As she gets older she will grow out of it.

It is quite normal for some teenagers as you see on movies to be obsess about their fantasy idols. If you can recall you may have pass through a similar experience although a bit different from what your sister is doing. This phase of life will pass and after she conquers her personal hang ups you can see that she has matured on some level. Be patient and be accepting and loving since that is what she will need from you and the rest of the family. We have different ways of coping up with how we evolve from child to woman.

Sit down one on one with your sister in an isolated area, and discuss the problem in a well balanced manner, giving her opportunity to explain. Make sure you listen carefully and weigh the pros and cons before reaching a decision. Any appearance of injustice will provoke the most powerful reaction. Teens see only black and white no grays. Their sense of justice is what we'd like to see in our much older judges and juries.

oh,my friend,i think maybe your younger sister is overdone no matter on the fantasy idol or being rude to your family,whether or not there are no family activities for a long time,i remember when i was young i can easily obsess about some things like games,hanging out with bad guys,imitating some bad things like smoking,fighting,smashing the glasses of other's house and i don't think that's bad instead there are comparisons between children.i guess this is rebellious period but they actually need someone to help them i see maybe you can start with trying to be a true friend share the same hobbies and gruadually talk to her and let her accept you rather than scolding her or forbiding her doing what she like,if in that way she will escape you even more...

I think, she need to grow up, everyone had 14..what about you? What do you do in your 14, i think she need just some time and it will get better.

Send her to Africa the land of zoo animals,human trials monkeys and fruits.

hi anjiel, Did she react violently? Did you try to talk to her and ask what is her problem maybe something is bothering her Do you think she needs a doctor? Maybe your mom can talk to her you know mother-daughter Hope you will come up with better solution happy mylotting

Maybe she just got her first Menstrual period. You should find that one out.