What if your bestfriend is dating the one you like...

Well,This hanppans frequently,I am sorry for that girl. But it is not your fault.If in my position.perhaps I will be trying to commfort her.Try to do something which can let her happy.that is my opinion.

i think i want to challenge him martial arts, i know i am wrong but i am now losings my temper.... sure i can advice to any one who has this problem but if it ever happens to me - then, i don't know what i have to do is to challenge him, i think i am now margarito, i think i am now cotto....

Sadly thats how life is, and there you cant tell your feelings first you loose, holding on to them doesnt do any good either so.. be the first to let the others know your feeling even if nothing happen, he is just not meant for you and there are plenty of other fishes lol

Well that is very common among peers. A girl has a crush on a guy but another girl which is her friend will tease them but at the end of the day, the friend and the guy will have the relationship. I felt stupid on this because my best friend on college did this to me and the worst is, she flirt the guy I like and even make bad stories about me.

For me if you are a good friend and true to you friend you let your best friend happy to the boy you both love then Jehovah God will provide you you find the one who is the gift in you for that case you love your best friend and the same time to Jehovah God.

Well, I would tell "Girl" that she is lucky to have an escape from "Guy". If she did tell "Guy" of her feeling and they became a couple, what would "Girl" feel later on when she introduced "Gal" to this "Guy"? Cause it appears that "Gal" has no conscience at all...

Dear 'Lady' your friends the 'Girl',the 'Gal' and the'Guy' are a universal phenomenon.You have heard of the saying 'All is fair in love and war'.The only thing we can do is maybe ask the 'Girl' to be a little more assertive.And i really believe having a crush is a teenage characteristic (though it can happen in adults).If as an adult you really want to be with a person you should have the courage to go up and tell that person so.Or else you should curb your desires at the start itself

I feel sorry that your friend finds herself in this situation. Although I don't think that this friend she talked to about her feelings is really a true friend. I don't think that a true friend would actually do something like that, knowing that their friend has feelings for this guy. I just don't think that it's fair or right. I'm just sorry that this happened to a friend of yours.

I can't help it if such things are meant to happen. Both of them has the freedom and right to choose, where love is concerned. When such feelings appear, it's not easy to control it. Isn't it better for them to be together before the guy gets snatched while in a relationship with friend? I won't get together with a guy when he's so easily swayed by temptations or have no stand on his own.I know such a relationship won't last, so why start in the first place right?

Well I feel sorry for the girl too. And I think she has every right to be angry at her friend. I mean how could a BEST friend do that. That's just so wrong. I mean if I were in her shoes, even if I like the guy I still wouldn't date him. I mean, I value friendship more than a relationship with some guy I barely knew. Friendship is forever but romantic relationships may end.

is this common in all girls...!!!?? my friend too faced the same problem.. POOR GIRLS