Am keep on hesitating to talk with Girls

India
May 11, 2011 9:53pm CST
From the childhood i have studied in Co-Ed schools but after my 14th age , i joined in a Boys school , then i never spoke with any girl , i really feel odd to speak with girls , even though some of class girls were making me SMS and i don't even have the intentionality to make the message . Will i get any problems if i keep on hesitating to speak with girls ?
5 responses
• India
12 May 11
Hi mate, even I was hesistant in my college days, I used to get nervous when a girl talked to me & I dint have the courage to reply her back. Later on as days, months & years passed by, I finilly decided to mingle with them, tried to make friends, gradually I developed courage to speak to girls. Now I absolutely don't have any problems talking to gals. Once you get that confidence in you, there is no looking back. All you should do is start texting those gals who send you messages because you don't have to face them directly. After some days, when you feel comfortable talking to them, go ahead meet them face to face. I don't think you'll face the sam eproblem then. All the best dude. Remember one thing... Even they are human beings. Got it!
• India
12 May 11
Hey why to hestite in this..... girls also frends rite thn whats the problem in that.... you have studied in co-ed so why u hesitate to reply to their msgs.... as u r chating with gals over here in the same way u can reply to ur frnds who msgs u......
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
12 May 11
I think it's natural. Especially since you have been in a all boys school for a while at that age. I don't think you'll have any problems per say, you'll find one you really want to talk to. Catching one by herself might make it easier. A group can be overwelming sometimes to approach.
• United States
12 May 11
Perhaps you have yet to meet the right girl. Once you do it will come natural. However, loosen up a little bit. Say hi, how are you once in a while. Worse case scenario is that you may not get a reply. Think about well good thing that one was not for me. lol But on a serious note, a few words someday will or may bring you that special someone.
@in212857 (67)
• India
12 May 11
well it is quite normal it happens but when you will again start working with them may be in some office than everything will be fine than things have changed and so the girls