A friend that yelling at you

I will first see what friend is this. If this friend who is shouting at me is a good friend of mine, i will talk to her slowly and calm her down. Check with her what is the matter and tell her that if she treats me as a friend, she should not be yelling at me. However, if this person if just a normal friend or an acquittance, then i won't be bother about this person. I would just walk away and let this person yell as much as he wants, as long as he wants.

First , i will talk to her in private why is there a need for her to yell at me. Then, i will tell her how i feel about it . Third, i would tell her that if she continue doing that, i will cut whatever friendship we have.

Even i will try to understand why he is yelling at me, if the reason is correct, I will listen to him.. but if the "yelling" thing is a habit, then i wont take it . i will talk to him and tell that i don't like the way you treat me! Hope he understand me and start giving respect one deserves!

I would say "Don't yell at me, talk normally and I will listen. Yelling achieves nothing". Just tell them that until they stop yelling you are not prepared to talk to them. And you said that they underestimate you. Ask your friend why they do not think you can achieve and why they underestimate you all the time? Have you failed in certain aspects of your friendship that you are unaware of? You will not know the answer to these questions until you personally ask them, until then you would only be guessing the reasons and driving yourself crazy in the process, trying to figure it out. Maybe you asking these questions will lead your friend to not underestimate you or you're intelligence in the future, the fact that you have the strength to talk to them in the first place will help to stop their underestimation of you.