Keeping the fire alive!!

I do not agree with that view of "fire" in the relationship. The thing is in the beginning it is easy because it is new and exciting, and you are still learning about each other. After awhile of being with each other you become accustomed and you also know about them and beyond the "fire" and passion you start to realize irritations or problems, but this is the subconscious taking effect. Though this is not always true, I have had a 2 year long distance relationship it was really hard to keep us going through the distance so I created games and fun ways to keep us active and close I would suggest the same to you as well.

Hi Jphotiveros, I feel the fire is not extinguished, its just hidden by the time. But at the most moments, the fire will spark out and glow its light at times of need. But to keep the spark in relation, be romantic and creative and always keep loving and make them feel your love.

i have been married for 20 years, and i would admit there were times in between that the fire burnt down and turned cold, but the best part is the respect, patience and understanding that we have for each other and always trying to resolve contradicting issues. i guess one important thing that really reignites the spark is creating an interest into something we both are interested in, complementing each other and envisioning of what we both want.

Keeping the fire alive for lovers in a very long time relations must have to continue nourish the love, give time for each other---attention. Feeling of being neglected by the one you love perish your love for him/her.

Relationships--even the best relationships in the world require constant attention,nurturing and work.If u can understand the need for constant attention and work in your relationship you're started in the right direction. First and foremost One shoud COMPROMISE:- Relationships are not about only taking but also giving. Second is communicate :- If 2 people cant find a way to openly adn honestly communicate their needs and feelings to one another,the relationshipdoesnt stand much of a chance long term. And third one should'nt underestimate the importance of trust and honesty.

It's true that most relationships decrease their intensity as time goes by. I guess you just have to do new things. Explore new things together. Go to new places together. All you need is to take your relationship to the next level. You just have to enjoy and discover each other in a new way. There still might be things that you don't know about your partner. Never ever stop exploring and discovering new things about each other.

Writing her a love letter will surely bring back the spark of love! This is old fashion but the effect is enchanting.