Do I have to hate her bacause of what she did to my brother?
By nimsaj28
@nimsaj28 (32)
Philippines
May 12, 2011 12:55pm CST
Still at this point I don't know how or what to feel on my brother's girlfriend.. She left my brother and their two sons a couple of months ago to be with other guy. Yes I[ts sad because they have two sons, She didn't even care on leaving them just to be with someone she just met! She and my brother has been together for almost 6 years.
She's really kind and I treat her as my sister. It didn't even occur in my mind that she will do that kind of thing. Yet, I love her and she's a sister to me.. But I keep on thinking about my brother and my nephews how they felt and I know that they are still in pain...
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@adnileb (5276)
• Philippines
13 May 11
Have you talked to her? Or asked her why she did that to your brother?
Everything has a reason and you should know hers for you to understand. What she did is unforgiving but you must not put a grudge against her as it will just stress you out. Remember, there's karma. Let karma do the right thing to her.
I wish you good luck on this and hope your brother and nephews can move on as soon as possible. 
@nimsaj28 (32)
• Philippines
13 May 11
Yes, the moment that I've learned about that I insist her to meet me so we can talk. that time I'm still wishing that I can convince her to get back to my brother and to reconcile.. But that moment she told me that she doesn't love my brother anymore, I've done everything to convince her but I failed. And then I ask how about my nephews, her sons, but she didn't answer me. And that day, I realized that her mind was already set on leaving my brother along with her two kids.
Thank you..hopefully my brother will be happy again..
@adnileb (5276)
• Philippines
13 May 11
Thanks for the BR jasmin...
It's sad to know that she doesn't love your brother anymore. I wonder what's with the other guy that made her leave her family. She's such an irresponsible mother and wife. 
I know good things will come your brother's way. Just pray and everything will be fine.
It's sad to know that she doesn't love your brother anymore. I wonder what's with the other guy that made her leave her family. She's such an irresponsible mother and wife. I know good things will come your brother's way. Just pray and everything will be fine. 
@lelin1123 (15595)
• Puerto Rico
12 May 11
Hating someone is never a good thing. That will only eat away at your soul. However, I definitely would not be able to have anything to do with her again. I have two male cousins that the wife walked out leaving the kids too. I never spoke to either one again. I thought it is a very selfish and cruel thing to do, especially to the kids. I feel so bad for your brother but hopefully he will find someone who will love him and his two kids.
@nimsaj28 (32)
• Philippines
13 May 11
HI thanks!
I know i'ts not a good thing.I treated her as my sister and bestfriend, that's why it is hard for me to understand her. Whenever I see my nephews seeking for attention and love it reminds me how cruel she is, but sometimes I hate hating her.. I really hope and pray that my brother will find someone that will also love my two nephews.
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