A petty guy that felt as if he was being ignored by me.
By cream97
@cream97 (29086)
United States
May 12, 2011 4:43pm CST
I know that I should not be asking for advice on this issue here, because I am married, but I really need to know the truth here. I had blocked my ex boyfriend on Facebook. He is now unblocked on Facebook by me now. So, on April 1st, he must have seen me on Facebook, somehow and he poked me. Well I did not poke him back at all. So, now it is May, and from the time that he has poked me, I have responded to a few of my sister posts every blue moon that is. Now he has been leaving comments at my sister's post because he wanted me to see him and know that he was around. Well, I never comment to anything that he has said. So, all that I have done was changed my profile picture. I guess he was waiting on me to poke him back or respond back to him in some kind of way, so when he saw that this never happened, he became angry and upset. Now he has blocked me or either he has deactivated his account. I can probably find out which one that he has done, by my sister. She is a friend of his on Facebook, but I am not. If his posts still show up on her page, then that means that he has blocked me. This nut head has to understand that I am not playing games with him anymore. I will act just like this did not bother me, I will not deactivate my account. I will stay right on Facebook doing what I have been doing before. He is just mad because I was not paying him attention. And why should I? I am a married woman and he knows that! All that I can say is that he is not even worth any words because if he really wants to talk to me he should at least sent me a message to me personally, to my sister or to my cousin. If he was so real as a man! Blocking me because I did not poke him back or gave him the time of the day, is very silly and dumb on his end.
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12 responses
@EndlessNameless (48)
• United States
13 May 11
I think you need to just stop thinking about him and focus more on being happy with where you are at in life now. The thing with Facebook is that it can send you into too many thoughts of rumors and drama... Walk away from the computer!
@elitess (5070)
• Ipswich, England
13 May 11
Well reading your post made me think to a simple solution. Just block him again and don't bother with him in the future. If you don't want to keep in touch at all that seams to be the logical solution and if you really must do see something that he has written you can always check it out via your sister, right ?
Cheers.
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@shibham (16977)
• India
13 May 11
Hi cream..
It seems that he still needs you but dont know what is his intention? May be as a friend or something else? why you are thinking about him whether he has blocked you or deactivated his account. I am thinking about it. If you have no interest then let him do as he wish.
have a nice day.
@adnileb (5276)
• Philippines
13 May 11
Poor guy.. 
I think you don't need to bother his actions if he deletes or blocks you. Like what you said, you're married. He'll get used to it soon. He has to respect your decision if you don't like to poke him back or PM him. 
Don't worry cream, everything will be alright in the end. 
I think you don't need to bother his actions if he deletes or blocks you. Like what you said, you're married. He'll get used to it soon. He has to respect your decision if you don't like to poke him back or PM him.
Don't worry cream, everything will be alright in the end. 1 person likes this
@sweetgirl_k1 (3972)
• United States
13 May 11
It sounds like he blocked you if your sister can see his stuff but you can't. I wouldn't worry about it. He's just being dumb cause he's mad that you wouldn't talk back to him or poke him back. Don't let it bother you cause you don't need him as a friend on Facebook if he's gonna be that silly as to block you just because you wouldn't respond back to him.
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@celticeagle (168269)
• Boise, Idaho
13 May 11
Exactly! And if you persue him he is going to act the same way. I would tell him all that you have set down here ONE TIME and then stand by it and do not deviate from that at all. Let him block you. Obviously he is immature and a power munger. If he doesn't get his way then he acts out. Isn't there a reason you aren't with this kid anymore?
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@yspmyl (3435)
• Malaysia
13 May 11
Hi Creams,
If I were you, I will delete him from my facebook, why add him and keep receiving such a hassle when you do not like it at all, unless you still having feeling toward him. So why bother so much on him? Blocking each other is really childish and straight to the point is much better to solve a matter.
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@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
13 May 11
Yeah that is the thing about facebook that I disliked that some used it as they were kids and not mature at all. So for this reason I have mine set to private and only listed family and friends can view anything of mine.
Some people really do not understand that high school was over years ago. lol
Just ignore him and do not give him any time of day.
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@mauricel (113)
• Philippines
13 May 11
Maybe your ex just want to be a friend, it is not like being with you again, it is the idea that you are in good terms after the break up. That you totally forgot everything bad that happened between the two of you in the past.
Some guys want to be friend with their exes because the want to take away all the guilt that they have in the past.
It is much better to talked about the good things that happened and laugh about it than taking everything for granted and end up hating each other again.
