This kind of people is really annoying! / myLot

China

May 14, 2011 8:52am CST

Have you come across such a person who takes others' help for granted. Every time she need my help,she just tell me to do it and never ask me if i have time.Maybe she think we're friends and I should help her.Now i feel boring about that.I don't want to help her any more.Do you think what should I do? Should I continue helping her?

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swats89

@swats89 (1729)

• India

14 May 11

hi. u can say directly that i cant help u every time. i m busy and i also hve work. say it politely. i hope she will understand.cheers.

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sk66rc

@sk66rc (4250)

• United States

15 May 11

If you don't want to help her, then tell her you don't want to help her. It's as much of your fault for letting her do it to you as it is her fault for doing it. Someone once told me, "If you lend somebody $20 & you never see him again, it was probably worth every penny..." If she is your friend, then she'll understand you can't be there all the time. If she doesn't talk to you ever again, well, you don't have to worry about her bothering you or taking you for granted anymore. It sounds like a win-win situation to me.