There's no such thing as perfect. in life..
By mobhomeir
@mobhomeir (7558)
Philippines
May 14, 2011 8:24pm CST
Everyone commits mistakes and done so turnovers because nobody is perfect. In our minds we will make it or do it perfectly but it could not really happen.
In our attitudes and characteristics, there are people whom we can say kind to us and
to the other people he/she's bad for them.
In our family we must learn to forgive and forget whatever we've done something not good may it be intentionally or not just to keep the family intact and in harmony.
But, there were members of our family who could not forgive and forget the mistakes committed by one of the siblings in spite of the apology asked. All of the good things and favor being done by the oppressor were all buried and replied it with so much hatred.
This issue happened in my family.
How considerate are you in your family members? Are you ready to accept apology regardless of the weight of the mistakes?
Honestly for me, I can forgive why not? But perhaps with some minor conditions and agreements. (Am just true to my self)..
What's your share?
Mobhomeir here
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18 responses
@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
15 May 11
I think I would supposed to like it but I was able to get the whole thought..
can you elaborate well the chinese sayings you mean?
Thanks for responding..
mobhomeir here..
can you elaborate well the chinese sayings you mean?
Thanks for responding..
mobhomeir here..1 person likes this
@mantis36 (4219)
• Philippines
6 Jun 11
they say no one's perfect but we are created by God perfectly...
if we are not perfect, then our body composition to all of our body systems will only malfunction....
even in the WWF world wrestling federation, there is a wrestler named "Mr. Perfect"
even in the result of exam in school, many of my classmates got a PERFECT score
even in the contest, if your team got a nice shot score, the cheerers shout "Perfect!!!"
@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
6 Jun 11
Perfectly philosophically right my friend...you have a perfect respond..you must be a smart guy..
@nitty66 (207)
• Singapore
15 May 11
Yes no one is perfect. But mistakes varies at which degree ? People are not born as saint to forget and forgive when the mistake is very hard to swallow. It's easy to say forget and forgive. Yes if it's minor matter. But it's hard in reality to forgive when someone hurts you or cheated you or cruel to you very badly, indeed very badly. Talking is always easy , just forget and forgive the usual word . Experience the feeling first and make a decision. In simple words, all of us please be kind,happy ,honest and life is beautiful with peace of mind. We will feel ,we are the happiest person in this earth ! Wake every morning fresh and happy . Enjoy life.
@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
15 May 11
I like what you said...it is reasonable statement..thanks for responding...
Mobhomeir here..
@my_name_is_coco (4333)
• Philippines
15 May 11
if life is perfect,man will not know God.if life is full of everything we wanted,then the things we wanted don't even have value.if we are perfect,it will be boring.if there is not room for improvement or learning,our brains will degrade.
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@my_name_is_coco (4333)
• Philippines
15 May 11
if life is perfect,man will not know God.if life is full of everything we wanted,then the things we wanted don't even have value.if we are perfect,it will be boring.if there is not room for improvement or learning,our brains will degrade.
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@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
15 May 11
I like what you said my friend, well narrated. Thanks for responding..thanks
@dynzdolina (381)
• Philippines
15 May 11
true, life's never been perfect, otherwise it will never be called life. That is the irony we have to face, living with it makes it factual.
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@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
15 May 11
Yes that's right..but are you ready to accept apology?
Thanks for responding my friend..
Mobhomeir here..
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
15 May 11
h second as third time writing this as I did not get to copy what i wrote before it was erased. grrrr. nobody is perfect so when we refuse to settle for anyone other than Mr perfect gorgeous hunk or miss glamour puss perfect we will nver find them as we all have imperfections.Thats why we should love our loved ones unconditionally warts and all as we all have these imperfections.My son and I have now accepted each other unconditionally warts and all as whe have been through hell and back. WE had to sperate so we could be housed as we were homeless due to his losing his job andus getting behind on our rent. We were evicted and thus homeless. He is inhope Haven a place for men out of work so they have a place to live while looking for work. its gov. sponsored. me I am in this tiresome retirement center . I give them my social security and ssi check for monthly room and board.i get back a whole 125 dollars per month.whoopee ded dee. but its sure a hell of a lot better than living on the streets. 
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@shynie (556)
• Philippines
15 May 11
Nothing is perfect in this world because nothing is exactly permanent. you may be living a great life now, but sooner or later you will have your downfall. then yet again you'll rise again. life is all about ups and downs. So there is really no such thing as perfect. Even us people, no one is perfect. we are designed to make mistakes in order to learn. in our mistakes, we make it of value so we know what to do the next thing we encounter that problem.
@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
15 May 11
Subject to be tempted and sinned but forgiveness my always be there if the apologies are sincerely ask...
thanks for responding my friend..
Mobhomeir here..
Mobhomeir here..
@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
16 May 11
Here's my share. I think you're right when you said nothing can go as perfectly as we initially planned but we can always try to make it as perfect as we can. In fact, people see something perfect but in actuality, it has a lot of flaws.
@asliah (11137)
• Philippines
1 Jun 11
hi,
no perfect life for every one,all people had bad and good experienced in there life,there were such a bad and good times in life,every one feel the pain and suffer due to problems and hindrances,but still people should be strong and will continue there life what ever happen to it.
@areshstarfreak (238)
• Philippines
15 May 11
No one is perfect. Hence, everybody makes mistakes in one way or another. As the saying goes, "To err is human, to forgive is divine." Therefore, whenever a person has done wrong to you, you have to forgive him or her though the time of forgiveness is unknown. Moreover if we, ourselves, have committed a mistake to another person we want to be forgiven as well right?
@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
15 May 11
I appreciate that my friend..thanks for responding..
Mobhomeir here..
Mobhomeir here..
@sfleric (83)
• China
16 May 11
It's true that there is no such thing as perfect in life. Meanwhile there is no such things that are never forgivable in life, either.
I think people should make some sacrifices to fix the relationship especially in between family members as long as there is any possibility to make up the conflict and misunderstanding.
You can end the relationship with others under only one circumstance that they just irritate you again and again even if you have made some compromise.
Everyone has distinct personality and his own way in dealing with other people.
Take care of any relationship and wish my idea help you!
@oninomar (505)
• Philippines
15 May 11
Agree on you that life is not perfect, we commit mistakes with others and some people commit mistakes with us... The most important is we know how to forgive and forget the bad experience we have... Life is not perfect but God is perfect... Sometimes we can help our self and in hurting other people, we sometimes does not see it that we already hurt some people.. We can't see it because we enjoy it...we Don't realize it, until its over.. Each of us has different attitudes and personalities,some people don't understand us.. If you have a problem within your family member, it is really hard to deal with it. It is not easy to forgive, but because blood is thicker than water.. Family is really important..
@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
15 May 11
Yes if all members of my extended family same attitude as yours. But, the damage has been done and it remains to be seen how everyone solve that problem..
Thanks for responding my friend..
Mobhomeir here..
@feeltheirie (301)
• Philippines
15 May 11
Nothing and no one this world is perfect and that include family members. Whenever they make a mistake or do something that i feel wronged me, I try as much as possible to forgive them. The same thing goes with my close friends. As long as they know that they have done something wrong and asks for forgiveness. It would be hard to forgive someone who does not even know what they have done or is not asking for forgiveness.
We re not perfect and it has happened so may times that I have wronged a family member. If a truly say that I am sorry, I hope that they would forgive me as well.
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@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
15 May 11
I got that my friend and I appreciate your attitude on that. Sometimes, our best friends are better than our own relatives. However I believe that blood is thicker than water...
Thanks for responding my friend..
Mobhomeir here..
@derek_a (10873)
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15 May 11
I would say that there is no such thing as perfection. Yet there is, you can have perfect imperfection. Life is perfect that way, but there has to be an opposite, so therefore there is no perfection and no imperfection. Things are just complete the way they are. We can add things with our minds, but that is us adding it as life it just the way it is and it is much easier to let it flow.. Yet letting things flow isn't always easy either! _Derek
_Derek @heavenrenz (190)
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15 May 11
True no one is perfect I believe that all human beings make mistakes and we have no right not to forgive because God Himself is forgiving.
@harck721 (372)
• Philippines
15 May 11
I agree that no one/nothing is perfect. If at least one thing in this world was, then it would be a better place. I consider myself pretty considerate in my family and I easily forgive those in my immediate family, even if they haven't apologized for whatever it was they did. After all, we'll be stuck together for life, so why not get along?
@joeyalberta (106)
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15 May 11
try to do things that you want but still follow God and be good in this earth.God did not make us like him (perfect) so that we can learn and ask for his help and forgiveness...:)
