jealous boyfriend :)

As they say love if forgiving many faults. I do think your boyfriend loves you maybe a little to much. Also, loving someone doesn't mean that you have to much take over their comings and goings. The lack of trust from one partner to the other will only lead to the ruination of the relationship. Clearly, this is an issue in your relationship that really bothers you, otherwise, I don't think you would be writing about it here. Think about this for a moment, what if you are with this person for the rest of your life or you are in a super long relationship, could you tolerate this behavior from your insecure boyfriend or husband? Smart thinking will save you a lot of future heartache. Loving you boyfriend is just fine and that is what you should do. However, don't lose yourself so much into this relationship that you become dominated and do just what he wants and not what you want. Equality is a big part of a healthy relationship.

Hi mEisky, You are lucky with your boyfriend because he really show that he loves you.. no matter what will happen he will still love you... Argument is a natural thing that happen in a relationship, as long as after that argument, you both realize the make peace and to say sorry to each other.. Sometimes argument is really important in a relationship, to show and to express what is wrong and what is the problem between both of you.. An argument strengthen each relationship, but not too much , it may sometimes cause a forever break up.. The important is you both know how to control each tempered, you just not exceed to what is the limit of your self.. Just put into you mind that you love that person so much, as well as he do.. So if an argument can be fixed in a possible time, it is better.. to have a happy relationship... SOmetimes we can't blame a man to be jealous, they say that it is better that a woman to be jealous because it can fade right away, but when a man get jealous, it will take time.. A man is really hard to please and you must do all things that can relieve his feeling.. A man sometimes can not handle his emotions so a woman must assist her partner.. A man will not get jealous if no reason. a man always get jealous in a right time...

For me you are not good in relation by that attitude because you always in quarrel.

Its just normal for man/woman to get jealous in a relationship. Everyone of us feel jealousy when engaged into relationship. I can say its just a proof that you love your partner if you feel that way. Too much jealousy can harm and and can be annoying. But it can be considered sweet though. Try to discuss matters about what makes him jealous and avoid that maybe could lessen your conflict.Knowing each others dislikes rather than knowing each other likes is more important to learn and to avoid hurting our partners. Happy mylotting!

Good thing that you are feel happy even though you have a jealous boyfriend. Well, jealousy is helpful in a relationship as long as this jealousy will not cause big damages in your relationship. In my point of view, to be jealous is normal but it has to be controlled in a tolerable level.

I agree that it is normal to be jealous over something. But being jealous too much is not cool for me. It drives me crazy to constantly watch my actions for fear of my boyfriend getting jealous. It would eventually tire me to always explain to him. I believe that constant jealousy would put the relationship to much strain causing for the couple to split up. I think that what needs to be done is to have a "serious talk" about this matter. Just explain to him that he needed to trust you and your relationship and that getting jealous is already getting on your nerves. Do not wait before jealousy takes over your relationship.

Thank you so much for sharing friend In love jealousy is so common, most lovers except a few are possessive, so nothing to be worried, keep loving him always. Enjoy life to fullest. Professor ‘*^Bhuwan^*’. .

ahh that's not good he's too much over protecting you from all people. Your right, jealousy is normal even animals felt jealous too. But for no big reason at all it's too much girl. You better talk to him. Maybe he don't trust you at all, or have you done something before like betraying? Just let him know that you don't like that kind of attitude but may cause a broken relationship in the future. If he do love you, he will try his best to change.

hello, My boyfriend is the one who understands me because I always argue every time that I got jealous. LOL and what he do is always understand and still love me all the way. So, maybe what you do is like my boyfriend too. I got jealous because I really love him and I dont wanna loose him at all. All you have to do is to understand too because that is the best thing you can do. alright? dont blame him because he is just loving you for real.

It sounds like you two are very happy! Why is he so jealous? Do you give him a reason to be? Usually as time goes on and people start trusting each other, the jealousy goes away. Make him feel more secure and know you won't love him and only have feelings for him so he won't be so jealous!

Jealousy can be flattering or annoying. It all depends on the degree. I'd talk to him when he is not emotional and try to explain he has nothing to worry about, but you find his jealousy difficult to deal with and that does not help the relationship. Congrats on finding love..it is very special! It also needs to be protected and cared for.