love life and life would love you back

May 15, 2011 7:44am CST
hello mylotters!.. recently, i am having such bad days and always complain of how sad my life was. because i dont have a work,always at home and penniless. i quit applying for jobs and was trying to reflect with my life.. i realized, making my own problem, complaining would not do good.i should love my life that is not perfect. they said i should write down the things that i should want to do with my life.. but where should i start?..can you help me guys?..need your ideas.. thanks a lot!;:0
8 responses
@783748 (178)
• Philippines
15 May 11
Writing at mylot about your problem is definitely one of the best things you did to start it off. Sharing your problems with others and asking for pieces of advice would definitely be of a big help. We learn from your experience and you learn from our experience as well. Anyway, there is no such thing as perfect life. Everyone experiences problems. With regards to your problem, why did you quit applying for jobs. Don't give up. Continue submitting your resume. Believe me that one of these days, you'll be called for a job interview. Don't give up easily. Giving up should not even be one of your options. Problems should be a challenge to improve ourselves more. Continue reaching for your dreams and believe in yourself. Ask for assistance from the One up there. I'm sure He's got all the best solutions there is.
17 May 11
thanks!..i did enjoy writing here in my lot.. so much fun and yet i can learn something from the others.!thanks!
@oninomar (505)
• Philippines
15 May 11
Hi joeyalberta, Life is full of struggles and we can surpass all of that just do your best and God will do the rest.. Don't lose hope, as long as you are still alive, live your life... Even life is unfair with us, enjoy it as you enjoy happy moments.. Sometimes even we write or plan to what we will do to our life, mostly 50% of that plan will not happen even you exert your best effort for that... Well in planning for what you will do, you must consider many things first.. It has a benefits for my self and for my family? Well the first thing you really do is to find a job, you said that you quit in applying for a job? well you must continue it, you really need to support your self needs.. Sometimes we really need to have our own source of income and not to depend to our parents especially if we are at the right age to work.. The after you find a job and settle, the next thing you can do is to support you parents needs, or if your parents does not need financial aid anymore, you can help your siblings if you have.. Or non of this.. you can now maybe find a partner in life.. if you have a stable job...
17 May 11
hi oninomar!.. yes, its true.. i did quit in applying for jobs right now because i felt like im tried already.but this must not end here, right?..i should continue..thanks so much!
• India
16 May 11
Hey dude first of all you should linu's worrying in life. Worrying is just. a negative state of mind reflecting on ur past emotions. you must build some confidence in your life try and keep yourself busy not getting and trying for jobs is just your lonliness and laziness. Our human life is always complicated we should always look into positive aspects of your life. Make yourself to do the aspects that is been needed more for your life. Hope you make your best in life and Dont think on your past life too much.
@obe212003 (2299)
• Philippines
16 May 11
Live your life, good times or bad times. Look toward starting each day with a bright outlook and throw all the negativity outside the window, lol! nevertheless don't despair and don't get frustrated over problems, just always remember that any heavy burden you carry would be light when you have faith. though it may seem easier said than done, just remember to put a smile on your face as we are fortunate to experience the precious gift of life.
@didi13 (2926)
• Romania
15 May 11
You know how it is and with this life? It made ??it alive, even if sometimes it is soaked with the bad, and you do not understand why one or another happening to you. Even if sometimes you find it unfair, you deserve more, etc.. I, if I had the opportunity to buy my life, I'd buy it without the slightest regret. I love life no matter what. I love the sun so warm, so I can listen to music. I love all the people around me, I love everything that has life, and sometimes even what does not. When you feel that life is harsh, or unfair, or any other appellation you've assigned you, think that others can enjoy the sun, the leaves are hitting the windows, clear skies, the scent of spring. .. or simply struggle for life, as she them. It's something I know for sure it's yours, even though you are aware, more or less, you do not take major decision in the end. I just do, and go.
17 May 11
hi didi!..i think, i should start to love and enjoy small things in life..i also should love my life!
15 May 11
Hi We all have days like this, when nothing goes right :-) but I just think about my lovely friends, my gorgeous boyfriend and the fact that I have a roof over my head and food in the cupboard Remember a smile from someone, a walk where there are flowers growing or beautiful scenery like a lake and trees etc are all free Why don't you volunteer, it will lift your spirits and may lead to something else love and blessings Elaine :-) x
16 May 11
thank you elaine..now i've been reflecting myself so much for this...i'm thinking what to do with my life and start to love things....
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
15 May 11
joeyalberta hi there We all have days like that where you feel like getting back in bed and starting the whole day over in hopes this time it will not be so bad. I think you have joined the hundreds of others who are out of work and getting nowhere fast. the economy is horrible and for every job available now there are hundreds after each job.Instead of writing down what you want to do with your life why not just take this one day at a time.Instead write down what all is good right now? Do you have a roof over your head? clothes to wear? food in your fridge? write down all the blessing you do h ave and take a minute to thank G od for them, then decide what efforts you are going to make to get employment.? try networking that is find your fri ends who have connections with places that cou ld hire you. tell them you need a job and work with them if they have any inroads.keep your resume updated and go hit the temp. job agencies as I have had many friends who got temp jobs that turned into fulltime employment. they liked the temp work of myh friends and they had an opening for someone like my friends so they got a full time job from doing temp work.
@shynie (556)
• Philippines
15 May 11
Hi there! I have been in that state before too. Every one of us experience that. It's how you deal with it that is important. For now, the best thing I could advise you, is too not over think and that you pray. Have someone to talk to. It will always help to have someone to pour your heart out. I know you will get over being sad and hopefully your life will get back in track soon! good luck to you!