She Shouldn't Seduce My Dad in Front of Me! What's she thinking!?!

Philippines
May 15, 2011 10:16pm CST
There's this woman. She used to be my dad's classmate until 6th grade. They have had a relationship and obviously it ended, cause if not my dad would not be married to my mom now. One time there was a wedding and our family was invited. We went to the resort, but just me and my mom cause my dad was busy. The tables are full but we saw this woman who I don't know back then and we sat with her, her husband, and her nephew (who was a former classmate of mine). They talked (my mom, that woman, and her husband) and talked and chit chat about things. My dad then came to pick us up and so we went home. Now, here's the story. A few months after that little conversation, a guy came to our house (another classmate of my dad) and told him that the woman is arranging a reunion for their class and that it will happen in her house. My dad and this man talked about things and everything, who is going to invite who, etc. Unfortunately, at the first date set, the reunion did not took place. They decided to do it the following week. My dad went to her house along with the man and they talked about matters. So things were set and the reunion took place. Now, while we are in this reunion, only 12 classmates with families came, I noticed that this woman is always singing and she almost never let others have the chance to handle the microphone. She's singing old songs about love and that maybe they can bring the past back... songs like that. I did not bother about that until I noticed this strange thing. When she looks at me, she seemed to be like "I don't like you" thing though she is trying to smile. I don't know if I was just thinking that or it's the truth. Now, here's the real big deal. I caught her winking at my dad while speaking at the microphone! What is wrong with her! First of all, my dad and her are both married, and their couples and children are all there! There are a lot of people and I know I'm not the only one who saw what she did (and I only caught it one time but then when my mom, dad, and I talked she actually did that a lot of times!). What does she want!?! I hate her for doing that! Well, if she'd know why my dad rejected her I think her attitude would change (my dad does not like the shape of her body, big upper body but small thighs and legs, like a mascular man, whahahaha...) And another thing is that her husband is actually my dad's cousin. Does not she know she's going to make things complicated if she did that (and she did)?! Great my dad is not a stupid guy. She seemed like a teenage girl trying to flirt with someone. Not thinking. And another good thing my mom would not heat up and just attack anybody, cause if other wife saw that, she could have attacked her! Anyways, she is not going to prevail!
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6 responses
• United States
16 May 11
First and foremost I am happy to hear that your dad talks to your mother about the situation. Says and shows that he respects your mother enough to talk freely of what he thinks this crazy woman is up to. I think because your dad had freely spoken to you all, I do not see where there will ever be a problem and am very happy to hear that. So no need to worry about the nutty lady as she simply is a trouble maker but seeing your dad is not allowing the advances hopefully she will simply fade away. It would of course be wise for your dad to distance from her especially with any alone times, not because he cannot be entrusted but because woman like her like to cause havoc and your mother certainly does not need her wonderful marriage disrupted. Best of luck and glad to hear that as a family you all discuss things in mature manner.
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• Philippines
16 May 11
Maybe she's just trying to give everybody else a great time. You said they were lovers during school days. You know paired up students back then can really get everybody else going, right? They scream, shout, etc..
@mr_pearl (5018)
• India
16 May 11
Hi there... I don't really think there is anything to worry about... From the story that you have told, there are many reasons, why such an affair wouldn't take place... First of all, your dad doesn't like her, you said it... So there is no chance of any romance between the two... Secondly, it might be just the friendly wink... Many times class mates act more like a family member or more than that... It might have been just like that... Your fear that she didn't like you, is something that can't be true... I mean, you met with her for the first time, I guess... And in the first meeting itself, one can't hate someone... As the whole thing started over you feeling that she didn't like you, the other doubts may mean nothing at all.. . You got the feeling that that lady didn't like you and still she pretended to smile, right? I guess, that is where your imagination got active and shaped up those vague fears... This is just a possibility... If the woman, hereafter, shows at your home unexpectedly or calls your home phone for no reason, then I think there is reason to be alarmed and to be cautious... Take care.. good Luck !!!
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
16 May 11
hello Bb, Well,it's hard to judge. But since you saw everything,trust your dad okay. I am sure your dad is not interested on her and see,her husband is your dad's cousin. Maybe she's just enjoying the night and the moment. Unless she's start calling your dad...that's another story then. have a good day
@allknowing (135173)
• India
16 May 11
Now that you know what this lady is up to you can always keep an eye on her but you must trust your Dad that he will never succumb to her advances. You can also alert your Mom about it so she can be caught red handed with her moves and done with.
• Tallaght, Ireland
16 May 11
Well This happened to my dad some time way back when i was in school - My father dropped me in school one morning,and was on the way back to work when suddenly a woman in her late 20s dropped nearby and asked for his name.Suddenly they both started talking as if they know each other for years.i left for classes soon and by the late afternoon after school,when i and my friend turned back home alongside her dad, little did i notice that i would corm across something which i had never even expected in my life ever.My friend asked me if my father ever had a girlfriend before.,which i said a big no keping my mothers marriage safe,for which she had replied that a woman was seen alongisid my dad tat day in school, and she had asked my friend about my relation with my father!! i was shocked!! did my father really ahd any affair with tat woman??if yes.,di he tell this to my mom!!?????? i still dont know!!