forming your child..

I could not say there is a certain formula to raising the kids to grow up the way you want them to be. every parent have different ways of bringing up their children. We were brought up to do what we want though we were constantly reminded of what is good and bad for us. Good thing that our parents are our best friends so the moment we encounter hardships or failure, we do not hesitate to share it with them and by then, it is really effective that we learn a lesson not from other's mistakes but by our own.

hehe, i am pregnant now. i am going to be a mother in a few months. it is really exciting. but i dont know how to raise children. actually, i have not think about that now. but i think the most important thing is to respect your child , make him or her as your friend.

i think experiences make good memories and are good leaning tools. i think for a child you need to set boundries and rules but also nuture their creativity and independance.

Being a parent is an underrated job. True how we brought up our children will make or break them.I came from a very sheltered life my parents wouldn't want me to get hurt or be hurt and as I grow older I realized that this way do not make me a stronger person. Now that I am a mom as well I know I got a tendency to protect my child but I want him to learn what the real world is. My task is to teach him values and principles that will make him a better person. That he never step down on other peoples toes, honesty, integrity, diligence and of course a love for God and be a Christian in words and deeds. I may not be present as when he is old but knowing I have taught him how to be a better person I will feel calm and at peace.

For me, discipline is essential. Without it, children might grow up without learning anything at all and could just do whatever they want. I'm not saying we should hit them all the time, only when necessary. My parents used to hit me whenever I did something wrong and, to tell you honestly if they didn't, I could have turned out worse. Now, I understand why they did. Back then, I was very angry at them but right now I know why, it's because they had to do it. They had to save me from the worst I could become and I really admire that. Another thing we should consider when raising a child is making them realize what they wanna do at a young age. It's important that they realize this right before graduating highschool so that the path they'll take will be set out early. My point here is, in becoming the best, there should be ample amount of time of practice and dedication. Now the latter won't be a problem if that certain interest is what they really wanna do their entire life. Dedication won't be if they happen to realize it at the right age. Becoming successful involves being the best out there and I want my kid to be the best at what he does.

I have two kids. And I've personally seen how a difference in 'forming' them has affected their personalities. The older one was the first, so he was made very special. He had a lot of pampering, even with other relatives in the family. Out of necessity and circumstance, the second one was not given the same pampering. As he is growing up, I see that he is becoming more independent. Even more independent than his big brother. So from this, I could say that experience 'is' the best teacher.

Everything really depends on us.Every parent wants to be as Stragite and to pamper their child.Sometimes I overdo it with one and the others must have a measure.The child must know what is allowed and what not. We parents should give children an example of a village.When they grow up and say we follow our made ??so it's true. So to be reckoned with in front of them because sometimes one of our action, they may interpret iit wrong. Love attention care and education that should show the child that we own it so we caninfluence the character and it is developing properly and helpful.Have a nice day!