I want to go back home,leave or stay?

Hi,,dear friend,it's good for you to live a relaxed life,with nice people around.the most important thing in your life is to be happy .you can never be a loser.anyway you had the brave to got away from home.A home is a place you can always leave and get back without any reason.Every one deserve a good and easy life.Just fallow your willing and never think about it too much.

hi there friend, i understand what you feel, i used to feel the same way, maybe in a diferent situation, but is called home sick maybe. lets see if you can take as an advice, missing home is always like that after a few years away from home, going back is going to get you real happiness but, how about your work? as will strongly suggest you to stay little more time dont do the same mistakes as others, if you have good money save until now, run and go home today, but if you dont have enough to invest in your country, you better stay because after your saving run out you migh look the same option to going to work abroad again and start over again maybe, think about it take your time, analize all your options, after all is your life, best of all for you.

It sounds like maybe you should go back to your hometown. I have often gone to other places when I had trouble so that I wouldn't have to face it. In the end, I usually wound up back where family and/or friends were. I no longer consider that I have a hometown because I have lived so many places and I consider wherever I am right now to be my hometown. If people are mean and rude to you, I wouldn't stay in that area. I hope things go well for you! Have a great day!!!

Someone told me that it's not cowardly to turn away from fights. You only become a coward when you turn away from fights that matter in your life. A friend's grandfather had once been stroked and was hospitalized. He runs a pig farm to earn some money. After less than a week, he had already been back to work. That's what true courage is all about.

You must look for a job in other place which it has no discrimination with regards to their workers and if the pay is good you could save for your future.If you are successful then your family will be proud of you when you go back to your hometown or you could also look for a job in your place so that you will be near your family.

If working in your own hometown will bring back the dignity you lost in your former job, then go for it. At least in your hometown, you won't be paying for your rent, food and most of all you are near your love ones and relatives. Besides, if you are happier working in your hometown even if the salary is lower , then you can say you are a winner!

Hello Mandy. If you feel like having a job in your hometown, especially there is problem for you to find one, then you can choose to do so, but if you are used to the life and work in the place where you are working now for a few years, it is not bad to go on working there. There is no need for you to care about what the natives think of so long as you can get rich financially. Like you, I am not working in my hometown, either, but in another province that is much richer than that of mine. I am happy working here and many of my colleagues come from different provinces of the country. Quite a few have made their home here instead of in their hometown. Anyway, Mandylee, good luck with you.

Nobody is a loser when trouble happens and we fall apart. Nobody. We all have something that breaks our spirit in one way or another but we all know we have to pick up the pieces and go on. Sometimes it's easier said than done and so we need outside help. If it means moving away for a little while to get better then you're doing the right thing by doing that. If you think you can handle going back to your home town, then you should do what you feel is right. If it'll help with your recovery then by all means do it. But if it's going to hinder your recovery then it might be wise to stay away and find a new place to start over.

It is nice to be able to be close to your family. It can be difficult to move to a new town who doesn't seem to be very accepting of newcomers. If you can find a job in your hometown, then I'd say it's probably best to just go back to your hometown. Sometimes, it's just easier that way.

Hi mandy lee: Not at all. You rhappiness must be your first priority. Maybe this palce gives you more financial stability but if it's that depressing you have to find a solution. This is making you feel sad so why not coming back? Actually I think it would be a stupid pride not coming back when you can and you are not happy at all being where you are. ALVARO

go to where your heart leads you.. follow what you really feel... if you want to go home, then why stop your self? It is a matter of choice and you have to choose which option could make you happy and satisfied.. don't escape from your problems please, because it is unhealthy for you..whenever you had a problem, face it and figure out how to solve it.. if i were you, i would really go back home, after all, if you can find money there that can sustain your living, then why suffer to a place like that.. but if you have problems again, try to be brave to face it...tc!

I think you should go back if you can have an acceptable job because you would have much more peace of mind in your native place and in the company of people you know you can trust.It's a shame that those people in the place where you live are so arrogant and narrow-minded since they don't like people who aren't native in their community,so I think you should leave them and forget that place which seems very unpleasant to me.

hi mandylee why don't you try to refect first reflect where are you comfortable , which hometown do u fill happy , you know it is difficult to have a job if you are not comfortable if there is a job in your country why don't you go home and be with your family , so that you are not sad

I truly believe that sooner or later you will go back to your hometown. I would suggest to do it now. It does not sound like you are enjoying your current life and the place you are at. Although you mentioned that you are unable to go back home due to some emotional issue; however, it sounds like you are yearning your hometown. If you are not really happy to the life you are leading now, then it would be best to try and go back home. Maybe this would lead for you to face the reason that made you leave in the first place. Once this has been resolved, you can then lead a happy and peacedul life with your family.