What makes you say that someone has charisma?

Philippines
May 17, 2011 10:29am CST
Someone just told me that I shouldn't miss the first ever get-together of Net friends of one group I joined. I'm hesitant in attending the party because I don't know many of the people I share antics in a forum. And he wrote me saying that I shouldn't allow my charisma to go to waste. Besides, he's sure that everyone in the party will surely like me. He's the over-all admin in the forum but is based in the USA while I live in another country. And the first ever get-together will be held in my country. Actually, he's not the first person to say that I have charisma. Now I wonder, how does one measure someone as having charisma? Just because I was able to make the people online laugh and fart endlessly has already become their basis in claiming that I have a strong charima. In your opinion,what makes you say that someone has charims?
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3 responses
• Philippines
19 May 11
A person with charisma is someone who brings energy. Picture The Rock, Stone Cold Steve Austin, or Shawn Michaels. Whenever they come out towards the ring they make people stand up and shout. These people have charisma. If you don't see yourself as someone like them then maybe your admin had mistaken you for one.
• Philippines
13 Aug 11
I let others judge about myself. If they find me carrying that positive energy a person with charisma has, then probably they think that I do have that quality which I thought I don't have.
• Philippines
13 Aug 11
Yeah, probably getting the feedback from other people would be great. You'll know how you're doing by listening to them, even reading between the lines.
@ajk111 (2495)
17 May 11
i guess someone that makes me laugh or smile as soon as they walk into the room has charisma. difficult as chrisma is that unknown quantity known as the X factor. I hope you are not travelling to this party alone. i suggest that safety comes first over people you barely know. best of luck whatever you decide.
@sender621 (14893)
• United States
17 May 11
Charisma in someone can often be seen by the personality they bring out in others. Their weaknesses and strengths are qualities that can show off just how much charisma a person has or not.
• Philippines
18 May 11
I like what you said about brining out the best in others. Hmmmm, i'm beginning to understand better about the word charisma. At first I was wondering why friends and strangers say that I have this quality. Thank you again.