Whom do you tell your secrets?

We all have secrets in life. But as for me, I will not tell my secret to my best friend or anybody. I just leave it all behind. The past is past already and I don't want to re open it. Only God knows, what and how did it happen. He is the one who will judge us when the right time will come. As long as it was not a confrontational secrets, you have nothing to wory about. What I mean of confrontational secrets is like if you are a man then somewhere in your past you had a family or had a love child then you marry another without her knowing about your past... You have to bear in your mind that one of this days your secrets will be revealed. But anyway, back to your topic, its better not to tell your secret to anybody to avoid betrayal in the end.

I really don't like to keep secrets, but when there is something that I feel that I do not want to share with my husband, I will call my best friend and tell her. We have been friends for over 25 years and she knows me better than anyone really. She is the one who I can always talk too.

My best friend has always been my confidantw for telling my secrets to. /thre is just aomething special in that kind of relationship that can make it easier for us to bear our souls.

I agree mostly with his mother.It is for me at my best friend.Can sometimes share with his girlfriend best-friend is now outside the country.And charges that I share with her mother and she always gives me valuable advice and never mislead.Have a nice day!

Generally speaking,I don't like speak my secret,and some things I will hide it in the heart,but for those that I can't deal with I share to my good friends,let them help me counsel and necessary I would communicate with my parents,in short,finally I will choose one best way to solve the problem.

I Tell my secret just to my god. coz my god will not tell to another people.

I am not married yet but I do have a boy friend. He is my best friend as well and I share all my secrets with him. However since past 5 months we are maintaining a long distance relationship and telling him all my secrets is landing the relationship into trouble since he is very possessive. So now a days I talk with one of my childhood friends who is always there for me and the best part is that we don't land up into a fight like what happens with my boyfriend. So I prefer to tell my childhood friend my secrets.

Hi cora, There are different types of secrets and different effects depending upon the people who are involved there. You rightly said that SECRETS are more with women than men. Usually men do not keep secret as secret and they do not bother to share it with others. But women are very anxious and with slightest of a chance they whisper to one and asks her not to tell that to anybody. And the chain goes on and finally it becomes like 'open secret' - No body knows but every body knows. Sorry, I do not have any secret to let you now. rest assured that whenever I will have one I will pass it on you. lol

I never did share my secrets with others. Even with my family specially with a bestfriend. They are just human and will just offend you when they confess it to someone. What I do is I say it to God in prayer. He's the real trustworthy who will never fail you.

As for me,i will just keep to myself,because in the long run if things gets worse to the person whom you share yoyr secrets he/she might spread it to anybody or to anyone so ill just keep it to myself and be it that way.