How did you do it

hi.. for me, that's my biggest problem.. 'til now, can't get over of my past relationship.. i've been trying everything but nothing works. i really love her so much! it's really hard if you're deeply in-love with someone who doesn't really love you.. ='(

Moving on is not really easy especially if that relationship made you feel that it would last forever. As for me, I had think of my family and friends. I know that I have really disappointed them and hurt them so much, especially my mom and my best friend. I love my family and friends so much! And seeing them hurting more as I still hold on, made me feel weak and guilty. I know that they love me in return so I have decided to let go and move on. I have focused more on my studies since it felt like I didn't care too much about my studies when I was depressed. I have also hanged out more with my family and friends since I owe them a lot.

Hi. Babygirl198400mx. Welcome to myLot! Well as for me, I have never gotten over him at first that easily. It took me remembering how badly that he has ever treated me to wake up. I also thought about how he has lied to me and cursed at me. He played me for a fool too. And he made me look like I was the one that was silly. So, I dismissed him. I moved on. I have been married to my husband for nine years now. It will be ten years this July 12th. It is never easy getting over an ex that you have truly loved. It hurts even more to see him with someone else, especially when he is showing this woman the love that he could have shown me. This made me feel very sad! But, now all that I do is show my husband and give him as much of love that I can. If my ex did not deserve it, then surely another man will. Take care and be blessed!

The easiest way to get over an ex is to find a new love. it is not advisable though because you might treat the next person as a fall back and hurt him in the end. Time heals all wounds. Just give it some more time and you'll forget him eventually.

There's more to life than love relationship you know.When I'm udergoing distress like that I always get plenty of activities to get myself occupied so I won't constanly think of him.Learn new things,broaden my horizen,and I'll be more confident and maybe sometime I can start a new relationship.

Hi babygirl, awww. I've been there, just last year. I was able to move on by finding myself. The more you love yourself, the more you see how much you're worth, how he failed to see that, and how special you really are. Once you start loving yourself, you won't really need to depend on your past source of strength anymore. :)

Well, when you break up with someone, it can leave a lot of Hard feelings and make it to where you might have a hard time wanting to Trust someone and allow them in your life, and it could make it hard to where anytime you see them you think about them wishing you were still with them. Sometimes it could take months to be able to move on depending on how bad it ends for sure. I know in the past before I met my wonderful husband there were guys I was with that it was hard to forget them once we broke up, and then there was one or two they were never worth thinking about again for sure. Yes, some cheated on me, and I felt sorry for the next person they were with hoping they never had to be in my shoes, and some of them ended up being Abusive. I think personally the Best thing is finding things to help take the place of that person, and finding New friends, etc. Sometimes just being Free for awhile and Single is what it takes as well. Learn to live and Love yourself and be Happy and when the time is right you will find another and this will be the Best thing that could have ever happened for you.

It's actually mind over body. No one can ever deny that love truly hurts , especially to be betrayed in love as what you have mentioned. But the sun still stands , the moon still glows and it's not the end of the world. One just have to toughen up themselves to get over it. Take some time off , enjoy time with friends , go for a singles holiday or just spend some time away in-country .. away from home. Get thoughts focused and see more people. The problem looks better in a bigger nutshell and perspectives will be gained. Actually , that's how I got over my ex. Well , two-timing me and wanted me to stay despite my confrontation upon discovery. Dumped the crap out of the bag and never looked back since. Anyway , that's life ..and it's not painful now already. I can even talk about it and laugh with friends , families and etc. It's not an easy process , but it can be gotten over with. Seeing a bigger picture makes the small problems appear lighter , trust me. Good luck yeah.

getting over from a relationship with someone you really love is not easy. thank God I have never been in this situation. this happens to one of my closest friend. she has tried all she can to forget the guy and we as friends supported her in all ways we can but she still could not get over him. then it happens to one of our friends after. what was nice was that it made her realize how stupid she is. she then shared what she did. this was her advise to our friend: "imagine you have 2 pads of paper. on the other pad, write all the happy things you experienced with him and on the other the pain he had given you. make sure not to be stupid to give justice to everything he did that hurt you. by then you will understand that you do not deserve him" in some cases, we were hurt several times by the one we love most but because we love them, we are giving ourselves excuses why they did it to us. good thing you found the one you really deserve.

It took me two years before I got over my ex. Broken hurt with time become numb and stronger. I wish you nice day and some happiness.

I also broke up with my ex in a real bad way. We didn't have any closure at all. It's true that a lot of friends gave me encouraging words and advice and as much as possible I listened to them but then, no one can make you move on but yourself. What I did was I kept myself busy. I did things I wasn't able to do. I took travels alone and met new people. I never removed our picture in my wallet and PC unless I'm sure that I've moved on. How did I know that I moved on? Whenever I think of him, I only remember happy moments together. I can freely tell anyone of what happened in the past without feeling angry or hurt and I don't harbor any anger towards him :)