Scared...

I think it is a bit hard to maintain 4 years relationship without fighting.. I think you should talk and try to think together what changed.. May be you just need some break from life and take a nice vacation together..

With every relationship your going to fight, especially being together for that long. He probably does feel like that and that is his way of unintentionally getting back at you . Most men handle things differently then women do, they bury things inside that are bothering them and it builds up, so the then they take it out on the person they love instead of sitting down and talking it out. When you are together that long you start getting comfortable with each other and then the neweness has worn off. you have to keep things alive, start doing the things you used to do that made you and him happy. But above all be patience if its meant to work out it will, if not then you will know. I wish you luck, I really do.. because I am going through the same thing with my husband and we only been together a 1 year and half.

Don't worry, im sure whenever he's upset with you, he still loves you no matter what. I hope you two get back to how things were, sometimes can cause one to change, the best thing is to try abd comfort him and tell him your prepared to be a better gf. im sure he will understand.

Your BF has probably have realized the relationship value though he misses the old one i think you guys are on the right track because even his behavior is changed and you are also feeling that you should contribute to be a better GF. Taking the past into consideration and leaving according to it is nothing but just your old relationships style if you think that the old style was better and you guys enjoyed it much then you can happily go for it. but in the other way if you find this new one to be interesting then i think you should give it a try and start a new relationship style with one another

I hope that you passed through all the trial for every relationship passing by, but then your love will guide you and try to understand him and make it up with him and try to visit the place and things to remember the old days with him, maybe he remember also the happiness things do together.

I think it is a bit hard to maintain 4 years relationship without fighting.. I think you should talk and try to think together what changed.. May be you just need some break from life and take a nice vacation together..