Successful ex- boyfriend?

@larish (2202)
Philippines
May 19, 2011 8:07pm CST
What will you feel if you found out that your ex boyfriend has been very successful in his chosen career? While you are miserable in your married life. Your earning more than your husband. Please share your thoughts on this.
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5 responses
• Australia
20 May 11
Hi Larish, I really won't care if i see my ex-boyfriend making a fortune. I must have left him for a reason and it is good enough for me to move on with my life. I'd rather focus on making my married life happier than regretting break-up with my ex. Alos, i wouldn't mind if my hubby earned less than me. We have vowed to share our lives, money is nowhere even close to making my life miserable.
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@tiina05 (2317)
• Philippines
20 May 11
hello, I will be happy to him because I never thought that it will happened. right? And I will congratulate him for that. If you are miserable you will find soon the answer soon of what you have chosen destiny. good luck
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• Canada
20 May 11
Umm should I be miserable if I earn more than my husband?? Why?? I've earned more than pretty much any man I've ever been in a relationship with and I don't give that a second thought. I enter into a relationship as an equal -- I'm not looking for a man to support me. My ex-boyfriend would be an "ex" for a reason... our relationship didn't work. If we parted on reasonable terms, I'm sure I'd be happy that he is enjoying career success. But that has absolutely NO bearing on my life with my husband.
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@ptower76 (1616)
• United States
20 May 11
When you end a relationship, it is simply that. The end. I would not go worry about how my ex is doing. If she is doing well, I will feel good for her. If I feel i am having a miserable life with my spouse, I would re-evaluate my reasons for staying in the miserable relationship. In a marriage, I think it is more important to understand that both are contributing to the marriage and not how much money one or the other brings home. Perhaps you can use your knowledge and experience to turn what you do have into something that is worthwhile having.
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@bubuth (1815)
• Philippines
31 Jan 12
I will be happy for my ex boyfriend because of the achievement that he got.even i see to my self that i am earning more that my husband i will still be proud of him because i love him and he is doing his best just to give our family our financial needs. Like when we get married we said infront of all the witness of our wedding and infront of God that i still be with him for better and for worst. We will help each other no matter what happened.. Happy Mylotting..