My Dream House
By sweetsaggi08
@sweetsaggi08 (57)
May 20, 2011 2:15am CST
My husband and I are presently living with his parents for 4 years now. We can not afford to buy our own house yet for the reason that both of us are not that stable enough. I have no problem staying with my parents in law's in fact they are so kind. We have not thought about this because we need sometime to prepare besides we just started. For now, I hope that someday we can make this into reality. I wish that my husband will push through his plan to build our own house, our own DREAM HOUSE.
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@ybcadreamhouse (2)
• United States
25 May 11
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@cream97 (29087)
• United States
24 May 11
Hi. sweetsaggi08. Welcome to myLot!
I hope that your husband builds the perfect dream house for you all. I stayed with my in-law's in their home for five years. This was not easy for me at all. I am a very quiet person and my mother-in-law always wanted me to talk to her, when I did not feel like talking to her. On top of that, she was every evil word that you could think of. Jealous, nosy, hateful, selfish, aggravating, irritating and so on... My husband used to talk about how he was going to move his family in an house. His parents, plus his siblings did not believe him. I guess they thought that he was just talking a bunch of B.S. It was only because we still lived there and we never moved out from his parent's house. I do hope that your husband builds you and him your dream home. I know how it is to have to live with others, it is not always pleasant, in fact it is a miserable experience to go through. I am glad that your in-law's treat you with kindness. I hope and pray that it stays that way. You are blessed to have in-law's like you have, I wished that I could say the same about mines. Now, my mother-in-law wants to have me in her life. She practically adores me. I have forgiven her for all of the mean things that she has done to me, but I just don't trust her. I wished that I could feel better about me trusting her, but I just can't. I don't hate her at all. I just disliked how she has treated me for so many years. It was wrong and mean of her to do this to me. Anyways, back to you, I hope that your dream comes true!
I wish many blessings for you and your husband!
I hope that your husband builds the perfect dream house for you all. I stayed with my in-law's in their home for five years. This was not easy for me at all. I am a very quiet person and my mother-in-law always wanted me to talk to her, when I did not feel like talking to her. On top of that, she was every evil word that you could think of. Jealous, nosy, hateful, selfish, aggravating, irritating and so on... My husband used to talk about how he was going to move his family in an house. His parents, plus his siblings did not believe him. I guess they thought that he was just talking a bunch of B.S. It was only because we still lived there and we never moved out from his parent's house. I do hope that your husband builds you and him your dream home. I know how it is to have to live with others, it is not always pleasant, in fact it is a miserable experience to go through. I am glad that your in-law's treat you with kindness. I hope and pray that it stays that way. You are blessed to have in-law's like you have, I wished that I could say the same about mines. Now, my mother-in-law wants to have me in her life. She practically adores me. I have forgiven her for all of the mean things that she has done to me, but I just don't trust her. I wished that I could feel better about me trusting her, but I just can't. I don't hate her at all. I just disliked how she has treated me for so many years. It was wrong and mean of her to do this to me. Anyways, back to you, I hope that your dream comes true! I wish many blessings for you and your husband!@sweetsaggi08 (57)
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25 May 11
Hello there cream97, i was touched with your story. Yes, indeed you are right that it is not easy living with others. Adjustments and Flexibility is what we need in order to gain peace and harmony in the house. As of now, I am hoping that my husband will realize someday that we need to build our own. The very main reason is, it's an achievement for both of us. At our age, we have fulfilled something in our life. I hope this will be realize before we will have our own kids.
@123nnj (47)
• India
20 May 11
I want to make my dream house, the dream house is always in my mind, my dream house
will be with all the facilities. I think if the house is small but with all the facilities it is good to live.One day i will completely make my dream house.
@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
24 May 11
It's always hard not to live in your own house. Even if they are in laws, and they are so kind. It is really not the same.
So it is great that you have dreams of getting your own house.
And I hope that one day, you do achieve your dream.
Goodluck!
@rakittera (802)
• Philippines
5 Jun 11
Like you, we have yet to save up for a house of our own. We were able to purchase a vacant lot in 2004. It's been 7 years and we haven't started with the construction of our dream house yet. There are just so many things to consider in terms of finances. We can take a loan but I'd rather not. I have to consider sending my kids to school and other priorities. But like you as well, I haven't stopped dreaming. I do hope that someday your dream of building your own house will come true. Good luck to us!
@gloryacam (5540)
• Philippines
20 May 11
Well, as long as you continue to dream and to work hard to achieve that dream, that dream house will someday become yours. When a dream is coupled with hard work, nothing is to impossible to achieve. Good luck to you and your husband!
@quadj130 (25)
• United States
20 May 11
Don't give up. It's nice that you have been given much needed time to figure out exactly how you want to plan the new dream house. It can become a reality. Time is the most important factor in anything and you and your husband have been granted it. Just take things day by day and make plans for how you want to achieve this goal and it will happen for you. I promise.
@sweetsaggi08 (57)
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20 May 11
Thank you so much for your message, It lifts me up. I know that we to take it slowly because this plan is forever.
@ybcadreamhouse (2)
• United States
25 May 11
Sweetsaggi08, have you checked out what we're doing at www.sfraffle.com? This might be a really easy solution!
@sydney143 (39)
• Philippines
30 May 11
for sure one day you'll just be shocked when your husband will let you close your eyes or cover it with a handkerchief and say " open your eyes now "..
one day for sure.....
