Too good to be true

Hello Mauricel, There's just some things that she doesn't share. Those negative things about her and her family and her job, her love ones, etc. Things might appear to be perfect or great on the outside but is very much hurting in the inside. Maybe she just wants to handle it in a positive way. She's that optimistic that she doesn't want to focus on recognizing the bad things in her life but focus on the good things instead. Just tell her always that you're happy for her. We all have our own definition of great family, friends, loved ones, career etc. We all have our own idea of a perfect life, and you simply can't compare yourself with the others. You are unique. We are all unique. Just do good at what you have, and the real thing that matters is you and your way of handling things out. Because life doesn't depend on what happens to our friends, it's what we're making to happen in our lives. Hope all is well with you too. no need to be envy. You are precious and as much blessed as your friend. Find your strength in your blessings. God bless you! have a great life!

Hmm... as I was reading your post, I thought you were saying that she kept on telling you that you should envy her. But I think I misread...? Maybe your friend just has a really good outlook on her life. I doubt that it's perfect. I think nothing is perfect... But I think maybe her attitude is such that she is able to magnify the positive and minimize the negative, so much so that it seems her life is almost perfect.

I'm sure there are things in her life that are not 100 % good as well, she just chooses not to talk about that. Nobody has the perfect life, really!

The way I see it, she just wants you to see the positive things that happen to her. Just go on with her, but I can't blame you if it gets to your nerves sometimes. I myself would get irritated if I'm told endlessly. With the way she's acting, her too-good-to-be-true life will just remain that way, since she has "supposed" best buddies secretly resenting her.