What's up with him?
By mjcookie
@mjcookie (2271)
Philippines
May 21, 2011 9:29pm CST
There's this guy that I really like. We met November last year as I applied for the same student assistantship program that pays students for solving computer network problems around the university. I've had a crush on him already since the first week I saw him. Last March, he told me he really liked me. On the last weeks of the month, before summer vacation, we were always hanging out, not really dating, but hanging out with our friends. We would ride the same public vehicles, just talk about random things, even when there were always moments of awkward silences.
And then summer vacation came. It's been two weeks since I saw him again. On the days after that, things started to change. He doesn't do the same things to me anymore. We don't talk as often anymore. I actually miss the way he would look at me (as corny as that sounds). Now it's like we don't know each other anymore. It's like we're back to zero. I could clearly see that he's not as interested in me as he was before. I actually don't know what caused that. Not that we were anything before, or that I want us to be something, but I actually miss those days when we were a little close to each other. I'm afraid to ask him what happened because we weren't anything, and I don't want him to think of me as overassuming.
Really, what's up with guys who stick to you one day and then just suddenly stops talking to you the next day?
3 responses
@owstalaga (4707)
• Philippines
6 Aug 11
oh don't worry about him. It looks like you already like him more than a friend huh? I know you miss those days, it's just normal but i don't think you should worry yourself about it because if he's not friendly anymore then it might be him having some issues as well or maybe he already has a girlfriend. i dunno.
@cowboyofhell (3063)
• Philippines
22 May 11
I would likely do the same as he did. Say that I love a girl even if not rather than say I don't like her at all and leave a permanent heartbreak. There's a song like that by friday night boys. It depends if the girl can take the truth or not.
@blogger01 (124)
• Philippines
22 May 11
Maybe you did something or said something to make hi avoid you. Or probably, you might just have assumed that you both had that spark for each other. Why not try making a move. Just be friendly, talk casually. He might like that.