still attached

Philippines
May 21, 2011 10:00pm CST
Have you ever experienced being attached to a person? In my case, I have tried everything in order not be attached. I became mean to him and showed him I don't care anymore. However, he is still there even if you have both decided that it's better if you were friends. His treatment is not like friend but more than that. He monitors me wherever I go, whatever I do and who I talk to. What's wrong with him?
3 responses
22 May 11
Being mean just shows you're still interested. Indifference is worse than hate, as they say - if you didn't care, you wouldn't notice that he's watching.
@Lexus656 (672)
• United States
22 May 11
You need to sit down and have a heart to heart with him. It sounds to me that he is still hoping for that fairytale ending. Must've honest and straight forward with him. Say hey insert name i don't have romantic feelings for you anymore. I need you to give me some space and let me move on. I appreciate your friendship and if you would like to still be friends then you need to accept my wishes or we can no longer be friends. I know it sounds mean and horrible but sometimes youhave to lay it out there.
• Philippines
22 May 11
He still cares for you, and definitely you still love him. Maybe you need to talk with him about your standing, cause it hurts to think that you both have intimate feelings towards each other.