Love Or Insecurity

Jealousy= Insecurity. True love isn't measured by how jealous you feel. True love is about being selfless. Jealousy is a selfish emotion.

Hello Menace730, For a moment try to recall any such moment that you experienced yourself... what do you remember....how did things happen.. First of all, shock in eyes as you are seeing something that you never saw before, and then very deep pain in the heart, which hurts so much that one cannot hide it and the emotions are beyond your control because pain does not allow you to keep control on your feelings. Since you are confused and don't want the person to know how you are feeling, you behave different than usual and this unusual behavior is called jealously. by people who don't even know anything. It is not insecurity or fear of losing the person, it is something that we cannot express in words, it is just feeling which has no name, which all have experienced, yet nobody wants to understand when it come to another person. All this I am talking about jealously in love and human relations...and not about any materialist greed like money gold etc.

Jealousy is a very negative emotion and most people who experience jealousy are insecure. It is a hard one to overcome but once you do you wonder why you bothered in the first place.

I think that when someone is jealous it can be either or but mostly I think it would because of insecurities. I never get jealous whenever my boyfriends would talk to a girl or dance with a friend, because in my heart i know where his loyalty lies.

I guess it's not love anymore. It's insecurity. When you love someone, you have to put all negative things aside including getting jealous. This will only ruin the relationship.

maybe there's also a different kind of jealousy, some get jealous because they love someone so much but that person put someone or something as a first priority than them, there is also a kind of jealousy that unhealthy and if its because of envy.