Does 'true love' exists?
By minmin3456
@minmin3456 (81)
China
May 23, 2011 12:41am CST
What's true love? People say true love means that when you fall in love with someone,you will do whatever for him,Even you can't get the same thing back. The person you love may not love you ,even he hates you ,But you still feel happy when you do something for him.
However,in our society now,this kind of true love seems very few.people always fall in love quickly,then they apart quickly too.Everyday this is happening,more and more people saying that they dong't believe love now,but ,we should,we should keep true love in our minds ,we should believe.
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18 responses
@EdnaReyes (2622)
• Philippines
23 May 11
es, I do believe that true love exist. True love are those love given out unconditionally, love that do not expect returns and love that goes beyond this life. I am in love, with a true love with my daughter and I love her until my life ceased and will love unconditionally.
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@minmin3456 (81)
• China
23 May 11
yes,you are right,true love does not exists between lovers only,it also exists between family and friends and many many people.
I can see that you love your daughter very much ,that's very luck for your daughter to have you love her so much,wish you and your daughter happy.
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@chdsandeep (397)
• India
23 May 11
Hello Minmin3456
Yes, True love exists and it will always exist.
You said people always fall in love quickly and then apart quickly too..that is not true love rather I will say that is not even love... that is just attraction nothing more than that. May be they are impressed from each other for time being but in actual everyone person is not same and as they get to each other better and fail to make understanding then they gets separated.
There is no definition of True Love and it still exists. I am happy being in true love from more than two years and working hard to get married as well. I am sure we are made for each other... We have the mutual understanding, we have the trust, we have the passion, we are like source of energy for each other, we are like the best friends who can share everything with each other...which we can't do with our parents or friends even...we can depend on each other and YES YES... we complete each other and we are incomplete without each other....
Thanks for starting such nice discussion
Take care!
May God bless you!!
I wish you get into true love and can realize its true power.
Happy mylotting.
@chdsandeep (397)
• India
24 May 11
Hello again friend
God bless to you too.
yes I am really lucky as I have got my angel.
I also wish everyone could get true love but everyone is not that lucky.
Oh sorry, I forgotten to welcome you to our MyLot family.
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@minmin3456 (81)
• China
24 May 11
Hello,chdsandeep,thank you for you responding.
I can feel you are very happyness,you are in true love with someone,and you have so much passion to descrebe you ,you are so lucky to be in a relationship like that,wish you can always be so happy.
As for ture love,I believe it exist too,I and my boyfreiend are schoolmates,when we get together,we may quarrel with each other,i may get angry,but both of us never doubt that we don't love each other,I believe it's true love too.and i hopo all the people gan get true love.
Thanks again,may God bless you too.
@reco13 (605)
• Philippines
23 May 11
I know true love exists as I feel it for my man. He loves me and I love him. We are naturally in love with each other that's why faith and trust remains in us although we're apart. We manage to enjoy the time even when we're apart because we know someday we'll surpass all these trials and we will be together, happy forever...
@minmin3456 (81)
• China
25 May 11
Hi,reco13.Thank you for you responding.
I am a newer in mylot,so my English is not very good,so I can't understand that what you mean you apart,I am sorry if i say something wrong,you and your man love each other,so I believe you will be together at last,wish you happy.
@umabharti (3972)
• India
23 May 11
True love does exist now also.The heart for once it says that it loves someone .Its forever.It never changes .Time changes and with that situations change and lovers get departed . Years pass on but the love still cherishes within, it misses the time spent together happily with the heart it loves.
In the lifetime wen it sees or finds it again it again says that it loves forgetting the things behind.
Mind thinks.Heart never does.It just loves.True love does exist.
@minmin3456 (81)
• China
25 May 11
Hi,umabharti,thank you for you responding.
I think you realy point out what love is and how love works,love is not one kind motion,but a normal feeling,everyone will have it,but not everyone can realize it.
Love can always touch the deepest part of your heart,giving you the biggest moving,or happyness,yes,true love does exist.
@tiina05 (2317)
• Philippines
23 May 11
hello,
Yes, I agree of what you just said. Nowadays people just treat love just for fun. I dont know why?. For me,True love is something that you can say that he is really what you are looking for!He accept your imperfections and same as you. Maybe those people who are in relationship which end up separated, maybe they are not really meant to be. So many reasons.
@minmin3456 (81)
• China
25 May 11
Hi,tiina,thank you for your responding.
After i stared this discussion,I find most people believe that true love exist.
This is good,for all of us believe true love,it's a wonderful thing.
@minmin3456 (81)
• China
24 May 11
Thank you fou your responding,I also thank my post,it makes me found out so many happyness people,and that makes me happy too.
May God bless you,we are both new in mylot,Nice to meet you
@ellebj (784)
• Philippines
23 May 11
yes, true love exists. true love is more than doing a anything for your love, true goes with loving while doing good for your love one. True love is when you decide things with your love one and do the things that could help you to become a mature and grow up together..
@besthope44 (12123)
• India
2 Jun 11
Hi Minmin, If you ask me, my answer will be there is only one love, which is called true love. Rest is all not called love. A love that long laster irrespective of all differences, ready to accept each other just for a strong love and it really exists and there are many stand up examples. I would like to add my name in them proudly!
@Bellapop (1279)
•
23 May 11
I believe it exists in some form or another, how would you know? You don't really much the time, unfortunately when we do have it, people take if granted and don't appreciate it. True love is probably unconditional, rich, strong and everlasting – not on a whim or fleeting as lust of which most people mistake it for.
@mythociate (21432)
• Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
24 May 11
Before you have this "true love," you have to give 'real love.' When you give 'real love,' there is always ALWAYS the risk that the one you give it to will not give their love to you in return.
But there is a very-small chance that they will return that love. Oh, you can boost that chance by 'being a good lover' etc.; but the greater chances don't pay as well as the lesser in any casino I've ever heard of!
@denikurniadi (317)
• Indonesia
23 May 11
GOod and great. we should be loyal to loyality of love. true love is loyality .
@InVinaVeritas (18)
• United States
23 May 11
Actual "true love" is pretty rare, I think. And depending on what side of the "love circle" you're on... this view can be pretty jaded. I know when I'm having a hard time with
@SimpleBB (1329)
• Philippines
23 May 11
I still do believe of its existence. I know a couple despite of what had happened to their relationship, they still have each other holding on together. And believe that those struggles are factors that strengthening their relationship. They were not blessed with kids, but still believe that they love each other for what they could have from each other but for what they could offer. They're not belong in well-off family either, but they are contented of what they have. They are satisfied living a simple life, saying that what is important is that they keep each other's companion and love. They celebrated their 27th wedding anniversary with friends and family. They even made that even meaningful, by making it like their wedding day, promising each other of their undying love to give only to each other, and continue to live on and survive to whatever lies ahead of them, just stay with each other that serves as their strength. Isn't it can be called "true love"? There are still more couples living in their true love. But maybe yes,seldom and rare at this time, but still exist. Happy mylotting.
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
23 May 11
I have always been a romantic and hope that i always will be in the future as well. i am a believer in true love. i know that it has to exist. i can not see love as being any other way.
@Xansus (946)
• Bulgaria
23 May 11
If true love dont exist then i was not going to exist too :P
Well i dont call the connection between family love its something else , and yes its something great .
But about the people falling quick in and out of love is their problem .
And Love is not true until its shared , one sided love is just painful love .
@didi13 (2926)
• Romania
23 May 11
True love has no place for selfishness and even for a single person to truly love you must love snail that comes after rain, cherry in front of the stairs, people next to you and, implicitly, the man with whom share your life. True love is a state of bliss sustained communion with the world that you belong to, something more than a simple need safety or a fear of loneliness.