The Best Friends that I have
By MarElizSon
@MarElizSon (142)
Philippines
May 23, 2011 3:07am CST
have you ever asked God for real friends for you to share your problems with, to laugh with, to cry with, to be just beside with? someone who'll share your dreams and ambitions? someone who will love you as you? i did!
i was once a lonesome person because of family problems. My dad is a serious person that he do not easily show his feeling and that's the reason why i feel aloof with him.
for this cause, i asked God for someone i could lean on other that Him. someone who is tangible, and have the sympathy to help me. Until He gave me this two person.
Other may wonder why it has to be two of them, and i didn't know that either.
at first, we had no compatibilities, no common denominator that we could talk about nor any other trips we could share together. Only for silence that we were able to spend our time together.
you may ask "how did it happen that we became friends?"
well we our high school classmates until we shared the same churches. we have no choice but to walk together since we all have the same way going home. and that's it. sharing some thoughts until we knew each other well.
it was really a tough journey because our attitudes ignites against each other. i asked God why it has to be them until i realized they will be an instrument that God will use to hone me as me, to be a better person and to mold my personality, so also they are. we are taught to appreciate one another and to accept each one's weaknesses.
and now, we are celebrating our 3rd anniversary of our friendship. we will always cherish the laughs, the cries, the tickles, the corny jokes, the good times, the bad times and the bed times!
i encourage you to appreciate the one that you have right now. i know this is not the end of our journey but rather the starts of another battles in life.
always ponder that our friends will never be perfect to be there always at our side and when that time happened, it's now your part to prove your love for them. show them that you care and you'll have the friendship that you are looking for.
nothing will ever be as precious as having real friends!
1 response
@rameshchow (4426)
• India
25 May 11
Being a good friend is ultimate.
The friendship in the school Life is ultimate, it is pure one. We can move very very closely with our school and college friends. Coming our real life starts after jetting jobs and marriages that is so boring.
We have to do feel and enjoy the college days only.