The better guy

I will choose the guy whom I love. Eventually I'll make him love me haha! It is really hard to pretend along someone who you do not like. It will also be unfair for him since you don't give back the same feelings he has for you.

One of love's eternal question, I think. It's difficult to be in that situation. You can learn to love the one who love's you but as long as you are in love with another guy, you'll never really feel that you love that person. I say find someone you really love who will love you back. It's unfair if you take love from the person who loves you just for the sake of being loved. If you can't love him back. like really love him back, then just forget it. It's pointless to wait for the one you love when you think he wouldn't love you back. For me, just take the plunge and tell that guy once and for all how you feel. Then if he doesn't feel the same way, move on. You can't wait for someone, just like waiting for rain in drought. You'll only end up hurting yourself.

Neither - they both sound like bad choices. But the second would be worth asking. The first is someone who's far too subservient. He's putting you on a pedestal and treating you like a princess: that'd be nice for a while but you'll get tired of it really quickly and want him to be stronger and more independent. The second is someone who might not even like you. You need to ask if he does. If not, fine - move on. If he does, then maybe it'll be cool. Unless he was deliberately ignoring you so that you'd find him "mysterious", then he's a bit of an idiot and you should dump him too.

This is a very difficult situation, but I think the better option would be to choose the guy who loves you very much and would be giving everything to you. Although at first you would feel nothing for him, I think over time you would gradually respect him, appreciate him like him and gradually fall in love with him.